u/rot_daughterr

Me (24F) and my boyfriend (33M) are medium distance. We are in a ddlg/bdsm relationship & have a 24/7 dynamic going on with rituals, rules and routine in our everyday lives. Last week was the first time I spent a longer period of time at his place, and while our entire kinky dynamic seems to work SPLENDID over distance, in person pretty much all of it fizzled out- it’s like we couldn’t find into our respective roles of princess & daddy even though we were intimate with each other, couldn’t keep our routine going and didn’t pull through with the rituals we actually wanted to integrate into our stay together. Is anyone familiar with this problem? How do we keep the spark alive?