u/rulesforfoolsTAA

Anyone else think it's those open marriage people that really create the tumors in dating these days?

The anti-ethical no? Regardless of how woke they say they are and breaking free from whatever chains they claim to have been prisoners of..

The fact of the matter is. If not even religious vows to the love of your life were a good enough anchor to keep your morals in check...

Yet you still hang on to them for dear life to keep your spouse... I dare you to divorce. Too scared youll lose your enm partner that you have so much compersion and trust for?

I call Bullshit. The most hypocritical toxic abusive people around.

It's no wonder the last 3 people ive connected with disrespected my very clear MONOGAMOUS ONLY requirement and found it more important/attractive?to share their psychopath/narcissist/CSA history than the fact that they are married. Wow

Realistically, since they've set the bar so low on what's required to be considered a good partner, at his worst technically my abusive ex is "more poly" than most of them. Or however that stupid bragging game they play goes.

But even if I could and wanted to and succeeded at having and maintaining multilple genuinely loving and fulfilling relationships where everyone is happy.

Why the fuck would I want to ruin that by labelling it polyamory after the disgrace it has turned into? I asked my friend what is poly. She says "you never would think to imagine it but if anyone ever wondered how one could fit marriage kids sadism masochism humiliation cucking pathology trauma disassociation regression dimentia neglect and jealousy simultaneously in one relationship without a single public tear or murder to avoid asking for a simple break like normal couples. That's poly. It's where love goes after it was aborted. not even Satan likes it there."

All of these "experienced poly/ENM with multiple" on their thrones responding to one after another poor traumatized person asking for someone to rescue them by saying "that's not poly" "omg he is not poly girl leave him now" as everyone chants that's not poly.

Friend, do you not see the mountain of shit you are standing on as you vigourously swat away the flies? Why are you getting so triggered and judgemental by the train of intruders barging in past your "welcome, please join us for ktp supper" just because they come calling your home the pile of shit it is...oops careful, that one is not a fly. That's your daughter

Fuck that. Let them have the rights to the label. I wouldn't be caught dead calling myself poly. Doing exactly what they criticise about the institutions they "broke free" from. The shitshow is poly. How hot does it need to get for someone with some dignity and heart left to lead to say "maybe we should get out of here guys. Anyone else not breathing from the smoke?"

Dont they know how to have a relationship without a label? Do they really think if I just take it away suddenly they'll all turn to_____Shit partners? Alone? Traumatised?

Oh damn you mean they would have to spend a whole hour talking and explaining in detail how nonsensical and virtually extraterrestrial the kind of partner they are really vetting for is. But that leaves all their needs unmet. How will they survive.