Why have girls never seen me as a boyfriend ?
Hi I’m 18 years old, and I’m writing this post because I’m curious about why girls have never really been interested in me. I’m not looking for support or reassuranceI just want to understand the reason.
I’m a tall guy with a pretty good physique. I’d say I’m fairly intelligent and charismatic, or at least that’s how I see myself. My face is probably around a 6 or 7 out of 10.
I’ve tried to build relationships, but in the end they always seem to end either with a quiet breakup or with me being friend-zoned. I’ve never felt like I was someone a girl sincerely desired, even though I think I have a lot of good qualities.
What’s even stranger to me is that the girls I’ve tried to date often end up in relationships with guys who, in my opinion, would make much worse partners than I would. I just don’t understand it.
If a girl has an attractive body, good looks, charisma, and intelligence, she’s usually going to have plenty of guys chasing after her. So I don’t understand why it doesn’t seem to work the same way for me. I’ve seen girls actively pursue guys who, honestly, seem far worse than me in many ways. I just can’t figure out why. I don't want to seem arrogant and selfish, but honestly, it's really like that. I would like to hear your opinion, maybe I will answer some questions and maybe then it will help me understand why