What do Christian guys wish girls knew?
We've published our own answers to this on our YouTube channel but it's over to you. Tell us one thing you wish the opposite sex understood when it comes to Christian dating
u/saltchristiandating — 6 days ago
Do Christians over-spiritualise dating?
Do Christians fall into the trap of reading every small moment — a text, a “feeling,” a coincidence — as a message from God about whether someone is “the one.” Do we use our own brains enough? How do we include God in our dating in a wise and sound way?
u/saltchristiandating — 13 days ago
Their friends encouraged them to use SALT and it worked!
Congratulations to Ben and Rebecca! Their story shows how our actions have consequences and our friends are so important in our dating journeys. Well done for being faithful in the little at every step.
If you have a SALT Story the world should know, email love@be-salt.com
u/saltchristiandating — 14 days ago
God Still Works Miracles - check out this testimony
Definitely witnessed God working through all of the decisions in this relationship. It's amazing to see when God takes what we offer and multiplies it. We hope this is an encouragement to every Christian single out there that Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever and He is at work in your life.
u/saltchristiandating — 16 days ago
Is it harder to date as an introvert?
Do you think it's harder to date as an introvert? Any introverts out there have some good advice to make dating more bearable?
u/saltchristiandating — 20 days ago
SALT gives good Christian dating advice every week
Your church pastor probably isn't talking about Christian dating every week. We are. If you haven't been part of the conversation on our YouTube channel or blog, check out our links.
u/saltchristiandating — 21 days ago
Long Distance Relationship success in the US through SALT!
Congratulations to Rodrick and Marie who met on SALT and overcame a HUGE distance to make the relationship work.
Get in touch to tell us your SALT Story by emailing love@be-salt.com
u/saltchristiandating — 22 days ago
Trusting God's Timing or Just Avoiding Dating?
Delphine talks about the tension we have in our faith as single Christians between being proactive in our dating life vs. taking control beyond God's will to force the outcome of a relationship. How can we get the balance right between our faith in action and letting God move?
u/saltchristiandating — 23 days ago
5 Ways to Flirt as a Christian
Here's some tried and tested and appropriate ways to flirt if you're a single Christian and you're trying to make your move - you're welcome! Anything you'd add?
u/saltchristiandating — 24 days ago
American girl and Northern Irish guy meet and get married
We love stories like this where faith is the foundation and deep connection between two cultures. It's all about making the most of opportunities wherever in the world you find yourself. Congratulations to Johnathan and Calie!
If you have a SALT Story the world should know, email love@be-salt.com
u/saltchristiandating — 29 days ago
Pitch Perfect Blind Date
We're back with another episode of Third Wheel Dates. These two were both lovely so watch the episode and reach out to them on the link in the YouTube description.
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Do you trust God with your love life?
Often we think that God isn't interested in our love lives - they seem too trivial or too painful to give to God. But trusting the author of love with our romantic lives is the best thing we can do. Have you talked to Him about yours today?
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
If you could only ask one question on a first date, what would you want to know?
For you, what's the most important piece of information your walk away with on a first date? Maybe skip past the questions like 'Are you a serial killer?' and assume that this is someone who is a genuine potential match for you!
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
SALT is open to ALL Christians
Is SALT just for one type of Christian? Not even close.
SALT welcomes Christians from every denomination and background — Anglican, Catholic, Baptist, Pentecostal, Orthodox, Reformed, Methodist, Charismatic, Non-denominational, and many more. With over a million members across 50+ countries and available in 20 languages, SALT is genuinely global.
We don't take sides on the things that divide us. We focus on what we share: a love for Jesus and a desire to keep Him at the centre of dating and relationships. Whatever your tradition, if you're a single Christian, you belong here.
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Lovely couple from the UK who met through SALT
I love that these guys needed a little nudge from the people around them - so important to have good community when you're dating. Congrats to David and Minu!
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Always say yes to a first date?
Sacha Jones (known from Married at First Sight UK) and Lauren Windle debate whether you should say yes to the date even if you think it's probably a no long-term. What do you think?
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Christian dating advice I'd tell my younger self
Here's the wisdom we've gathered over the years from the Christian relationships we've seen work. Any Christian dating advice you'd add?
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Lust or just attraction: where's the line?
Anyone else find this genuinely hard to untangle?
Noticing someone is attractive isn't a sin - it's just being human. But there's a moment where "I think they're lovely" can tip into something else, and it's not always obvious when that happens.
For some people it's about where their mind goes when the person isn't even around. For others it's more about how they treat someone — are they seeing the whole person, or reducing them to how they look? Some say it's about action rather than the initial thought — attraction is passive, lust is what you choose to do with it.
There's also the guilt spiral: feeling normal attraction, panicking that it's "lust," then feeling ashamed for something that wasn't sinful in the first place. That doesn't seem healthy either.
Genuinely curious how people think about it:
- Do you have a personal rule of thumb for telling the difference?
- Has your thinking on this changed as you've got older / been in relationships / grown in faith?
Would love to hear how others navigate this one.
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Looking for a Christian singles community, not just a dating app? SALT has both.
Inside the app, SALT Social is a community feed where members share, ask questions, and connect beyond matching profiles. Table is our live audio events platform - around 10 events every week covering faith, dating, relationships, and whatever else is on people's minds. We have our lovely SubReddit community too! Whether you match with someone this week or not, you won't feel alone on SALT.
SALT is a huge, global community of single Christians.
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago
Another couple who are dating and preparing for marriage after meeting on SALT!
Very happy this lovely guy found his girl. I first met Kien last year during my match-making experiments and he was pushing all the right doors to put himself out there in a position to meet someone - and we're glad he did!
We're praying for you both as God guides your relationship - thanks so much for taking us on the journey so far.
If you have a SALT Story you'd like to share, email love@be-salt.com
u/saltchristiandating — 1 month ago