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88 Year Old with Credit Card Debt

I have started to take care of my grandmother, age 88, and discovered she has $26,000 in credit card debt across 4 different cards, which she has been living off for the last 10+ years. She does pay the minimum balance due every month. But now the interest payments are more than 50% of her income, which is only her social security. Her monthly SS is $1100. She has no savings. She does not own a house. No car. She owns no assets of any kind. She currently rents a small apartment by herself. She is dependent on the family for financial support to cover all living costs outside of her SS income.

Curious at this stage, if it's better for her not to pay them at all?

Or send a judgment letter to the bank/creditors to notify for her financial situation.

Or apply for a debt collection loan to consolidate the cards into one lower APR debt loan.

Or file for bankruptcy?

Trying to see what is the least stressful and best financial option for her in this late stage of life.

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u/sampakk — 6 hours ago
▲ 3 r/CRedit

Senior Credit Card Debt

I have started to care of my grandmother, age 88, and discovered she has $26,000 in credit card debt across 4 different cards, which she has been living off for the last 10+ years. She does pay the minimum balance due every month. But now the interest payments are more than 50% of her income, which is only her social security. Her monthly SS is $1100. She owns no assets of any kind. She is dependent on the family.

Curious at this stage, if it's better for her not to pay them at all?

Or send a judgment letter to the bank/creditors to notify for her financial situation.

Or apply for a debt collection loan to consolidate the cards into one lower APR debt loan.

Or file for bankruptcy?

Trying to see what is the least stressful and best financial option for her in this late stage of life for her.

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u/sampakk — 1 day ago
▲ 7 r/vmix

vmix Laptop Recommendation 2026

Hi, I am going to be a new vMix user and looking to buy a laptop specifically for vMix and video production, and curious on which of the two laptops below would be the best fit.

Debating between a used Razor 2022 i7-12800H, 32GB RAM with RTX 3080 Ti or the current vMix 2025/26 recommended computer, ASUS 16" TUF Gaming.

Used, 2022 Razer Blade 17 Black

i9-12900H

RTX 3080 Ti 16 GB VRAM

17.3" 4K 144 Hz panel

32 GB RAM / 1 TB SSD

or

ASUS 16" TUF Gaming F16 Laptop - FX608LM-BS96
https://www.bhphotovideo.com/c/product/1894584-REG/asus_fx608lm_bs96_16_tuf_gaming_f16.html/specs

Also curious if AMD CPUs a good option or better to stay with Intel?

Thanks!

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u/sampakk — 2 months ago