I [M26] want to ask my FWB who is my ex [M24], to ask his best friend [M24] to join our FWB situation.
So my ex [M24] and I [M26] broke up over a month ago and we’ve take a good chunk of that with no contact and eventually came back to deciding being FWB. I’m the betrayed in this situation and I’ve told him very blatantly I don’t want to get back together and that he has no access to the romance or emotional connection we had. I’m direct about our FWB situation and that it’s me just using him for sex and tell him if he feels like he wants to opt out, he can. Anyways so we’ve hooked up twice and we want to include a third and so we’re using sniffies to find that third. In doing so I found his best friend [M24] on sniffies—who was a problem in the relationship more so because my ex was unable to set boundaries with him and was really weird and possessive about him ( my ex to this day says they never hooked up or that there’s never been a question about their friendship being purely platonic). Now, ironically, I want to ask if he’d be okay with asking his best friend to join our FWB situation… ik how this sounds but he’s hot and is gifted to say the least. Also, the friends expressed attraction to me, to my ex in the past while we were still together. Thoughts on if this is a blatantly bad question or if I should bring it up. Thanks xx