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I know some ppl who simply don’t like listening to music but they read, watch smth and have interests in general. I’m thinking about ppl who prefer listening super simple song, without trying to search for something better. Or ppl who thinks that music in charts might be better than less popular
artists, just because it’s popular, without any other reasons. From my perspective music is one of the things that shows our personality, emotions or what we’ve experienced before. What’s your take?

For me it’s Twilight. I was literally obsessed with those movies as a teen. Loved everything about them the plot, the characters, the music, the whole vibe and that chemistry between actors. I still remember binge-watching all of them in one day. It hit me so hard I could barely breathe at the end of the 5th movie, especially that scene where Bella shows Edward all her memories of their relationship, I was tearing up.

When I rewatched them later as an adult I could definitely see a lot of it is kinda cringy and awkward especially the first movie. But it still takes me back to my teenage vampire obsession and that intense “this is peak romance” feeling I had back then. So yeah, I still love it even if it makes me cringe a bit now.

Dear polyglots, please share some really useful tips how to speak different languages and not go crazy. I know 3 languages, I use all of them every day (2 of them are mother tongue, 1 is English) and at the end of the day I’m not able to speak at all, cus they’re already mixed in my head so I mix up the words or just forget them. When ppl ask me to translate something from English it feels unreal even though it might be the easiest sentences ever, I just feel it. I wonder how ppl can switch between different languages, especially when they know 5+ and can use them fluently

When people fall in love, they think they’ll be together forever. Get married, build a family, grow old together like it’s just a normal part of life. Movies, shows, books all make it seem natural and achievable. And at the beginning, with all the hormones, butterflies, excitement, and obsession with each other, it really feels real.But in reality it seems way more complicated.I genuinely don’t understand how people stay with the same person for 10, 20, 30 years and still feel deeply in love. Like how do you not get curious about other people at some point? Not even in a cheating way, but just wanting new emotions, experiences, different connections, to broaden your horizons or something.And where’s the line between genuine love and just staying because it’s comfortable and familiar?

I’d really love to find one person and stay in love with them for my whole life, even years later when the “crazy in love” phase is gone. But at the same time, part of me feels like that’s almost impossible, especially for both people at once.Idk, maybe I’m overthinking it. What’s your take? Do you know couples who have been together for a lot of years without cheating on? TL;DR;