u/sassclasslass

I slid into a guy’s DMs, he gave me his number, asked me out, and we had a genuinely great first date. We kissed, he mentioned making plans for this weekend, and the vibe felt mutual.

Now it’s been 4 days of silence and I can’t tell whether:

1. this is normal adult dating behavior and nobody knows whose turn it is to text, or
2. this is soft ghosting/fading interest.

At what point do you assume someone is uninterested after a good first date?

Update: I sent a friendly text saying something along the lines of hope you’re having a good week without response (it’s been 5 hours). I guess he’s just not that into me 😢😢😢

Update: he responded, said works been crazy. I feel like I’m an insane crazy person ha SOS send help