u/sassybund69

“What do they mean? Explain it to me in this situation or case.”

Even though I don’t support it, I can’t deny it’s a hard thing to do. So, in the hierarchy of men, high standards are often respected.

I don’t believe love is necessary for marriage. If I don’t love her and she doesn’t love me, that’s fine — we can still fulfill our responsibilities as husband and wife.

For some people, the fear of living alone is enough reason to marry, and I think that’s valid too. But yes, this mindset should be made clear before entering a relationship or marriage.

Honestly, love feels overhyped to me. What matters more is compatibility — being able to live together peacefully, handle responsibilities, and play your roles properly.

I’m mainly talking about arranged marriages. Love marriages often have a higher chance of breaking down because people may love each other emotionally but still be incompatible in daily life.

In arranged marriages, people usually enter with a mindset of adjustment, compromise, and long-term stability.

Do they feel like he just wants me for my body or is it just regressive I have recently seen so many cases where ex partners leak private photos when their partner gets married and then the other family gets dragged into the matter I feel like if moral values do not align the relationship should stop before starting and it is nobody’s fault it is just about preferences and no one should be judged you can simply say I am not comfortable with this and I will not be able to marry because I do not want to live with mental stress thinking about it again and again