u/scottish-cameron

Why aren’t crowd fences/police barricades physical objects to civilians so civilians can’t walk or drive through them but emergency services can if they need to or just make it a object for everyone if that system is too complicated?

TELL ME WHY i pit a suspect or chase for like 5 minutes for me to finally get them and they jump in a fking river and drown themselves so I can’t arrest them or leave the game like the drowning Ik you can’t do anything abt but you can defo prevent ppl from resetting idk abt leaving the game but resetting yes while you’re wanted and police are nearby it’s just so enraging to deal with and genuinely if you main like being a criminal and you do this…

Gang

What are we doing?

Like come on have some common curtesy to let the officer arrest after getting you fair and square.

I started playing just abt a week ago as I realised erlc came to consoles, and it was fun and all I made abt 1k - 1.5k xp and over the last 2 or 3 days I barely make like 500 or 600 now and I am playing on servers with a lot of calls and stuff so I should be getting more xp right?

Is this a common thing and if it is then what am I doing wrong?

We’ve had a few conversations about our future together as we hope to have a long term relationship with each-other, she wants kids when she’s 18 and I’m 16 so it’ll be legal as I live in the uk, Scotland, but I want to wait until about 20, she’ll be 22 but she says that’s too late.

That alone wouldn’t be much of a problem for me it’s quite a flexible thing but what we fundamentally disagree on and I see as a massive problem between us is religion of our kid.

I want him/her baptised and to attend church every Sunday, she has expressed she doesn’t want to go in a church outside of remembrance (we are army cadets and I want to join the army so we do remembrance and probably will continue to) she has not told me nor wants to why she doesn’t but was very firm about it. This alone wouldn’t be the big problem it is for me because I respect her decision and I won’t force her to go but she also was firm that I wouldn’t be taking our child to church until their about 13 or 14 and I can ask them.

Some backstory to why I disagree, I did used to be raised Christian but a very young me said I didn’t like church because it was “boring” I regret not still going and I turned back to Christianity at 12, I know converting or returning to Christianity is a extremely unlikely thing in Gen Z, let alone the next one, I’ve seen many religious and philosophical views and now I identify as Christian but I know my child probably won’t, so I want to educate it on them early and if they disagree when their a teen I won’t stop them from leaving religion.

I have been respectful of her views along the way but I feel like my voice isn’t being heard on the matter

She is not willing to talk about it until we’re older and also pushed off the conversation of protector until we’re actively about to, she left that conversation saying she’s not letting me use protection because of her latex allergy and even though I made it clear you get latex free condoms she still firmly refuses to let me use protection when I’m older, I don’t want to be stuck with a kid I’m not ready for. Nor do I want a kid I have no choice over how their childhood plays out.

Any advice?