Am I wrong for wanting to leave my wife with bpd?
I'm new at this and usually don't ask personal questions. My wife (been together almost 30 years) was diagnosed a few years ago. I believe it started after she told me about her and my brother having feelings for each other. As far as I know they fooled around but no sex. After confessing, she got extremely paranoid about her phone and started thinking that I was tracking her though it. After almost a year of accusations of this, she got increasingly violent to me, her mother (who used to live with us) and our boys. After multiple hospital stays (suicide attempts), I had to get a peace bond against her. After it expired, she moved back home. I lived downstairs and she took the bedroom. I want to sell the house and try to find peace as I find myself breaking down. Am I wrong for wanting to leave, I don't want anything to happen to her. But I just want peace