WIBTAH for breaking up with my boyfriend of 10 years for kicking a cat?
I (27 F) have been with my boyfriend (28 M) for 10 years. While dropping him off at home, we found a stray cat in his apartment complex. I am a certified cat lady as I have one of my own and feed the strays in my apartment complex daily . He had some chicken he bought from a gas station and gave it a few pieces. He then began playing a “too slow” game with it teasing it with a piece. I told him to stop and just give it to them or don’t and he didn’t. This is where I may be the AH. I grabbed his wrist and forced him to drop it and he proceeded to kick the cat . I immediately started crying in which he said “ get the fuck away from me you sissy” which he later apologized for. He says he only lightly kicked the cat and it’s just a stray in which I responded he’s a psychopath and went home. Typing this out now I feel I was justified . But guys, would I be the asshole if I ended the relationship over this? It’s made me see him in a new light. We’ve been talking about getting engaged this month but at this point, I’m over it.