▲ 6 r/QuittingFindom
It's not that I don't want to give in. It's that I don't want to want to give in.
I had an idea lately that a lot of us, me included, are at the phase of still enjoying findom, but just not wanting to want it.
I don't know if that makes any sense. It's like we want the love of it to go away, but we still are drawn to it.
I think a lot of us, me included, need to start just not wanting it in general. This is a more powerful position to fight urges.
u/shrimpcagedsixseven — 7 days ago