u/shweedy420

I got back from a trip to Colombia a day before the earthquake hit. I was on the Caribbean coast and not near the area affected, but I feel distasteful posting photos of my travel with a current humanitarian crisis unfolding there.

Would it be wrong of me to post a few travel pics to my social? I thought I could possibly include a link for people to donate to the earthquake response in my post, but I also don’t want to seem performative since I wasn’t in the area hit. I had such an amazing trip and would love to showcase that, but I also want to be culturally aware. Please let me know what you would do!

Is it normal that my friend is having both of her parents come on the bachelorette trip? They will be staying in the same house and it’s for a full weekend away. She says they will just help take care of things around the house but also we are in 30s and adults. I don’t want to be a judgmental friend but also this seems very odd to me.