u/skime-life

So as a single man 39 years who lives in a small tight nit community I took a date out44years old on the Friday night

We had a great time

At the pub it’s mostly women who serve the drinks and we all was having a laugh together

Saturday I got a call from another potential date 38years old lady

Who I invited round to my house and took her out around the local village

To avoid looking like a man slag I took her into the pub litrally next doore

As I’m sat there with girl no2 the barmaid from pub no 1 first night walked in saw me with the 2nd woman stopped and looked at me pointed at me to say haha busted and finger pointed

Like I’m watching you and called me a nob head

I didn’t know what to do but laugh

The thing is the barmaids have always smiled at me when serving and been very polite

So jump forward to Sunday I had this element of guilt so I walked over to the bar to see if anybody had anything negative to say so I could explain I’m single and dating and it’s not cheeting to kind of the clear the air

They refused to serve me a drink

Now I feel outcasted like the village barmaids and locals saw and disapproved of my actions

Am I overthinking this

Or was this a bad move on my part

Have I done the rong thing and how do I bounce back from looking like an absolute dog of a man 🤣

Should I feel guilty for dating 2 women on consecutive nights like this

any advice would be really good

I have autism so I can be very sensitive to how people treat me

Can this be fixed or am I now just a man slag to all those women who no longer deserves a pint with a smile ? Thanks in advance