u/skykias

As a child I had frequent dreams about having a hot rich bf with a large family and we would do many adventures together. From me performing huge concerts at their mansion to baking a massive brownie on the school lawn. Note I was a pretty lonely kid so this was my main outlet for that.

Now at 26 I actually have the real life version minus the huge family. And he treats me wonderfully. He is truly the most attractive guy I’ve been with and also has an inheritance large enough where we both only have to work if we choose to for purpose. We currently live in a gorgeous and large (for NYC) apartment in NYC with crazy views in a great neighborhood. Literally my dream life

The reason why I think it’s manifestation is because the odds of this happening are so low. I’m a black female and my parents are immigrants so I was a first gen college student. I have a great job as a SWE and went to a great school so that in and of itself is rare. But to meet someone like him after no luck with dating for 7 years and it actually working is so crazy to me that I’m now thinking something was at play

As a child I frequently lucid dreamed about having a hot rich bf with a large family and we would do many things together. From me performing huge concerts in their mansion to baking a massive brownie on the lawn at school.

I suppose since I did this so young so frequently my brain is pretty primed for it.

I wanted to try last night (now mid 20s) and was able to have two lucid dreams (via WBTB as I get up to pee a couple times during the night). For both I also was able to use the WILD technique as it was pretty easy for me to recognize myself falling asleep. I also had other dreams earlier in the night and I wrote them all down.

The first one lucid dream wasn’t as pleasant (tried to fly immediately but fell into water and was almost eaten by a shark) so I tried setting an intention for the next one when going back to bed to make it a better scene. Still was pretty bare so I asked for a guide and a little green cartoon ghost appeared and led me to a better scene (wedding dress shopping :p). Next goal is to make these last longer and try the rubbing hands technique next. But I’m pretty excited that it came back easily