My boyfriend is taking great care of me while I’m not feeling well. He is so capable and reliable 🥹
Throwaway because if he sees this he’ll know it’s me (hey bb)!
I’m 30F and he’s 27M and such a man. He is the most caring and thoughtful person I know. Today we’d planned to go to the gym then I’d spend the rest of the weekend with him at his place. Well I started feeling light headed, queasy, nauseous and simply not in any place to go to the gym, pretty sure I’d pass out. While he was on his way to pick me up I texted that I don’t feel well and can we skip the gym. He showed up, checked to see if I had a fever with his hand and looked so worried. He took me to the store where he held me up throughout, and we grabbed two quick nutritious meals and some pedialyte which he paid for (pictured). He kept looking at me with this sad worried face and when I apologized about the gym (we’ve been focused on getting sexy for summer) he reminded me that the gym is always there and I’m more important.
Once we got back to his he pulled out a thermostat and even had thermostat covers (never seen these). To confirm it wasn’t a fever and so cutely deduced that it’s likely low blood sugar because I didn’t eat enough earlier or drank enough water and it’s quite hot. I was pretty overheated and he engineered his two large fans to blow on me while I lay in his bed. He’s grabbed couch pillows for me to prop myself up better, put a cold towel on my forehead, and gave me some kisses.
We sat to watch a new anime he found called MarriageToxin. Now he’s up preparing Mac and cheese from scratch, a veggie medley (pictured), and baked chicken for dinner 😭 Yall my mother’s prayers might have worked. A man who enjoys animes about a guy who’s looking for a happy marriage while being a poison master? Like damn how’d I get so lucky.
He always has the most efficient and prepared stuff, the man literally has a deep carpet cleaner machine, matcha whisk, towel warmer (gift from his mom), satin sheets, buys my body wash and tampons for his place, etc. He acts so grown at an age where so many men still act like children. He deep cleans, knows a lot about cars and home maintenance from his dad and friends, cooks really well, is fit, full head of hair, great jawline, 5’9 which is tall enough for me esp in shoes, communicates and shares his emotions, has an adorable cat and has all these random cute hobbies like putting together ROKR puzzles, listening to Warhammer 40k audio books, and Legos. All while holding down a tech job for 5yrs. We talk throughout the day, intimacy is good, and spend most weekends together. He’s open about his IG, YouTube, and TikTok (I made him get it) likes. Often he’ll scroll through the likes to show me funny stuff he’s seen while we were apart. Our algorithms also merge so I’m sure if he was looking at stuff I’d see something off. He abhors cheating and thinks it doesn’t make sense, and I really do trust that he’s faithful. Our values and faith align.
He always wants to pay for things (I’m unemployed right now and he paid for my groceries last week even though I didn’t want him to), asks if I need something, and wastes no time when it comes to me, it warms my heart. Honestly I have PCOS and on Metformin and Spironolactone which I think can also lower blood sugar. He’s always considerate of my PCOS (what’s the new name?) when he cooks, more than me apparently because I need to do better about it and my meds. I just feel so blessed and relaxed around him. The crazy part is he is always like this, even when he’s had a long day himself he at least wants to make sure I have everything I need.
Just wanted to share some happiness and hope about men because I know this sub gets so much shitty men content. Don’t give up if you want real love!!!! Just keep those boundaries tight and be open to the unassuming consistent nerds.