u/sleepytehtarik

I've always assumed people date first and then only bring them to meet family members when they're sure they want to marry each other?

I also know some people would even bring family chaperones along on dates so that they won't be alone together, especially in more conservative cultures.

Which both of these very different approaches made me wonder what it is like for Malaysians? I know we're all very different depending in cultural background and I guess how conservative or "metropolitan" your family and upbringing environment is, so maybe there would be answers from all parts of the spectrum.