Aitah for not inviting my brothers gf to my wedding?
In the middle of planning our wedding, my brother got a new gf that he just made it official with. We had our guest list pretty much set to where we only want people who have been active in our lives and met us to be in attendance due to limited space and big families on both sides. He sends a text pretty much saying add her to the guest list and I replied we aren’t having plus ones right now.
He kinda flips on me and we argue and I’m stating that we want our wedding to be with people we’ve met and been involved in our lives. I’m sure we will meet your gf eventually and like her. The argument kept going to the point where he blurts out he never liked my fiancée.
I was livid at the approach he took and didn’t talk to him for two months or so. Finally decided to have a talk with him to clear the air on stuff.
Ended with I want him to talk to my fiancée to clear the air as well on his gripes.
He said he isn’t in the right head space to talk about it right now. Fast forward 9 months later. He still hasn’t reached out but now my family is reaching out pushing me to change my mind. And I’m thinking about not changing my mind because I haven’t seen any effort on his end.
Aitah for that?