Nonbinary, femme presenting?
Hello all! I wanted to know if anyone has experience and would be willing to share about coming to terms with being nonbinary but still presenting very feminine.
I love being femme. I love skirts and dresses, makeup, long colorful hair, jewelry, etc etc. I started using she/they, then they/she, and now mostly they/them. I’ve never felt connected to being a “woman” and feel like I’m just… me. I’m not a man or woman. I’m just Emery. But because I like presenting femme, I feel like I’m not “allowed” to identify as nonbinary. I know logically that this isn’t true, and it’s not something I would ever feel/say towards another human being, but internally it’s quite a struggle. Can anyone share their experiences and how they worked through this/similar struggles? How did you come to accept yourself and your identity?
Any advice is appreciated!