How does this work. Let’s say he picks me up in his car. Can someone help I’m so lost on what to do. Do I go straight in for his dick after kissing I’m so lost (new bi person, first experience ). If we are hooking up in his car.
Hey guys! Lemme explain this story I have…
So basically I am attracted to girls and guys. However, I can only see myself dating a girl(idk why). I guess this makes me “bi” but I don’t really go by a label IRL because I feel like it forces me to act a certain way by what society sees it as. I kinda just like girls and like guys and do my own thing, kinda who I wanna be. i figured people in here may have similar experiences and might be able to help me:)
But basically I’ve been chatting and hanging out (twice) with this girl who I really like (she’s bi too) and we both like each other. But at the same time, I met this gay guy at a party becuase I was friendly with him because I’m nice, and we have mutual friends . I think he’s attractive. And at the party he asked his friends if I was gay, and they said no. (Mind you, others don’t know besides some of my close friends that I’m “bi”, because I’ve never actually done anything with a guy). And he wanted to hookup with me but I didn’t say anything that night .
But since then we’ve been chatting casually, sending snaps back and forth , I’m being friendly. But sometimes I find myself “flirting “ with him… for example I’d send him a snap without my shirt or something like that(yes sounds corny). And like I can tell he’s been flirting with me as well, he’s been like “wyd” and hinting he wants to pick me up. Like today he literally was like “I’d love to crash at your living room rn” and I folded and was like “haha, that’s funny”. I do not find this guy attractive romantically but I would so experiment with him. I just want it to be lowkey because of the girl, and I know this is so fucked up but my mind is torn and that’s why I’m asking for help. Idk if he’s reaching out romantically or just wants to hookup, and I’m just confused because I really like the girl but wanna get with the guy.
If you understand of can help me in any way that would be great. I’m just confused as hell!
Thanks