Should I 17M Tell My Girlfriend 16F?
I 17M got into my first relationship 2 days ago (Long distance) with a girl, call her S 16F.
i had a female friend come chill and smoke in my room last night and i even asked my gf first if she was comfortable or minded it which she didn’t. I kinda had to be sneaky because my dorm doesn’t allow overnight guests so she kinda had to spend the night in my room.
we just talked about life and relationships; felt like an american high school sleepover in a movie lol. we smoked some cigs and weed and just watched a movie on my bed. i kept my distance as far as possible when she was on my bed because I want to be faithful to my gf which i made clear to my female friend.
i didn’t realise before hand that she was gonna have to spend the night in my room let alone my bed which is why i feel guilty about not telling my gf first.
the question is, should i tell my gf of 2 days this? i don’t want to start the relationship with any secrets but at the same time, i don’t wanna jeopardize the relationship just because im an over sharer.