Tiny meet major and I think major gets self-conscious
I have a tiny vaginal hole and I'm not trying to be risque when I say that. I genuinely have a small opening and then it gets bigger as you go inside. I don't think this environment is something that my partner understands. They me rub the outer walls that once they do that they think it's super huge inside and while it is they miss the small opening and I try to explain it to them but I think by teaching or even saying something about it they end up feeling small.
I can't help that but because I have to say something he also doesn't do oral or anything so when it's time for a condom he gets frustrated because likely he's not getting it in the way he wants to. So he wants to take it off and that's not helpful either but I obviously like him I've been talking to him for over a year.
Besides the sex thing I would say I like him enough to not want to look for someone else. I think he has a good sense of reality and he's a sweet lover when it comes to making time for me so I know he wants to make it work but I think when it comes to that part it goes in one ear and out the other because he's so focused on the fact that he's a man and he's getting criticism and that's not what I'm trying to do.
Any kind advice would be awesome sauce.