Am I a jerk?
Soo I F29 have been seeing this girl F36 for 2 month now. She is the first girl I have been seeing because till now i dated men.
The problem is that I can't figure her quite out. She's nice, smart and I love spending time with her, but I can not let go off a feeling that she's hiding something. She says she loves me, but I think she just wants to have sex maybe.
So the thing is I have a rule to not have sex with anybody before we reach our 3 months of dating. The guys I had a relationship with we're are cool with it and didn't make a problem.
She verbally says she ok with it, but then makes weird moves like we're go to her place and she's humping my leg, which honestly weirds me out or she's trying to feel how wet i am and so on.
It all weird me out but I tolerated it until my friends said something in the lines of: "Would you tolerate it if it was a guy?" and honesty I wound't.
Last night she send me a sound text message of her mastrubating and saying how she need me as in she needs to have sex with me. I told her she won't get it sending something like that. Then she said she's constantly waiting for somethings and that I dictate every move of our relationship which isn't true.