u/socks_in_crocs123

As stated, newer partner has dx ADHD and time blindness is an issue. He's trying to implement strategies, but his handwritten ​strategies remind me of the conspiracy board Charlie makes in Its Always Sunny.

I'm unsure how to navigate this. How far do I lower my expectations? How much assistance is appropriate without stepping into a carer role? I'd like him to be somewhat close to being on time, but I don't want him to be dependent on my reminders (which I feel can slip very easily into resembling nagging).