Am i supposed to level up more?
Hii girls!! I’m 20 and I’ve been following Shera since I was 17. I’m not necessarily looking for a provider right now (I honestly just want to have fun and date guys around my age who are financially well-off)
I go to a gym on the richer side of town, and I’ve noticed that a lot of guys stare at me, but very few actually approach. I don’t dress super provocatively either, just cute regular gym clothes (Lululemon, Alo, etc)
The funny thing is that the majority of the men who actually approach me and ask me out are the gym coaches, which is definitely not what I’m looking for 😭 At first I thought maybe older men or guys my age weren’t approaching because I look young or maybe I’m just not their type, but now I’m wondering if it’s more of a body language thing.
I know I’m pretty and I feel like I’ve leveled up A LOT over the past few years, so I don’t really want to assume that I need to change my appearance… but i do have a pretty serious/RBF and I almost never make eye contact with men because I don’t want them thinking they’re all that lmao…
Do you girls think I should work more on being approachable, or is it more likely that the men I’m interested in just aren’t approaching for other reasons? I’d love to hear your experiences, especially if you’ve noticed a difference after changing your body language 👀