Cis people are kinder than transmeds
Because I’m nonbinary, apparently I can’t be transsexual, despite literally changing my sex. I’ve had transmeds on here justify and mock me getting sexually harassed, and the justification is this: “A stranger asking you your sex isn’t harassment because nonbinary people talk about their AGAB and ASAB all the time.” I don’t. And even if I did, that doesn’t justify people asking me what’s in my pants. Ever.
They want to gatekeep healthcare when we literally seek the same treatments, operations, etc. They call us slurs and “theyfabs.” They echo the sentiments that TERFs express regarding them.
Meanwhile, at least in my life, the cis people I surround myself with are chill as hell. They don’t understand, but they respect—something I can’t even find from people within our own “community.” I hate to bring negativity here, but I’m just so infuriated by this that I’ve been actively avoiding community things and pride events and such. I have queer friends I hang out with of course who DON’T share these hateful opinions… And this may be more of a bigotry spread by people who are terminally online. Idk, does anyone encounter this behavior irl anywhere?
In a time when we all need to come together, I shouldn’t actively not want to due to a few loud bigots but here we are.