u/spacecat245

Doesn’t need to be connected to a window!

We’ve been together for 4ish years. We were literally in a mccdonalds drive thru which made this feel more ironic. He randomly pulls out his phone and goes “wanna see this picture of this really fat soldier?” (He’s in the military). At fist I was confused and I was like what do you mean like a picture you took? He says yeah and he’s scrolling thru his phone to find it. I said absolutely not. Told him I don’t understand why he was showing me that and started questioning why he was taking pictures of random people. I asked if he’d been showing it to other people and he said yes. This fr MORTIFIED me? Like you’re taking photos of other people and showing them to people around them snd making fun of them for being fat? What the fuck? It made me so sad for that other person and disgusted that my partner would do that. Never in our 4 years did I think my partner would bully someone? And then he just did? And it kinda feels like my entire perception of him has been a lie? I’m not sure what to think. It grosses me out to imagine myself with someone like that like why am I lecturing u abt why it’s not right to take photos of someone to show others to laugh at. This has really been bothering me and idk how to even approach a conversation about it or what I’d say? Kinda makes me just want to walk away?

TLDR my partner took a photo of someone who he thought was fat and was showing it to other people, making fun of them for being fat. I found out bc he asked me if I “wanted to see some picture of a fat guy” he took. Conversation or break up???