u/spicy__salt

Hi everyone,

I’m currently working in the US on L2 work authorization and will likely move to H4 later this year because of my husband’s visa situation.

This year is my husband’s final H1B lottery attempt, and his I-140 is in process (hoping for approval by around Dec 2027 so I can eventually apply for H4 EAD).

One thing I’m struggling with is the idea of becoming financially dependent for a while if I move to H4 and can’t work.

For those who’ve gone through this, especially women who moved from L2/H1B to H4, how did you become okay with financial dependence, career pauses, and the shift in identity/routine? What helped mentally and practically?

Thank you!