Hinge date groped and spanked me out of blue!
I downloaded Hinge a year back thinking that it could be fun in general to know people and maybe get my 'The One' But ohh boy was I wrong. Was somewhat forced by friends initially so even I thought I could give it a try. And soon as I downloaded the app boom men started complementing so much. I didn't want to go out on a date coz I was new to it. But then I(20) matched with this man(22). Showed him to my friends they legit screamed that he was handsome.
We started talking quite much for a month but man he wasn't a red flag but a RED BULLET TRAIN! But me being naive thought that this guy was just cracking dark jokes. Then he literally manipulated me to go out on a date with him...quite pleasant date nothing unusual got me flower and stuff. But this man was emphasising soo much on a kiss but I strongly refused and got back home. He then forced me again to meet him on a second date which I again gave in to. Chose public space again went normal. Things were getting quite serious between us. I started liking him and he told me he wanted us to be in a relationship.
Now here on he again forces me to go to his place for the 3rd date. On which I fought with him for days , coz he used to say freaky things like "I want to try bdsm" which would scare me sometimes but then would say that he was joking. And somehow he managed to convince me to go to his place. I went to his place we say at the couch and I was casually showing him pictures of my new place on my phone. I don't know when but he had his arm on my shoulder he shifted that down onto my breast and squeezed it hard that it hurt soooo muchh, he groped my breast sooo forcefully!! I went numb I couldn't do anything. And I just couldn't address what he just did. Then when I was joking( laughing in stressful environment is my coping mechanism) about something I stood up from the couch. This man legit spanked my ass!!!! Man that made me soooo furious I almost slapped him but he diverted the topic and held my wrist. And then we had lunch and when I was about to leave I asked him for a glass of water.
He gave it to me and while I was drinking he pulled my ponytail and said that " see bdsm is fun ". I nearly choked on water.
HE DID THAT ALL INTENTIONALLY!! Fully planned it out!
I was later on in relationship with this man which turned out pathetic and have more red flag stories. (I was naive people)
One of the most pathetic experiences!