u/spike_spieg

I just got $1500 I have to pay down. Got 3 credit cards I have to pay down just paying one down at a time. $500 on each card. Will I be able to keep my clearance? I already have one just don’t want to worry nor stress.

So I’m 25 now been 25 for like 2-3 months now and I feel like this is another reason why I be having depression, loneliness sometimes, irritability, sadness, anxiety, impatience, reduced tolerance, suicide thoughts, mood swings, increased aggression because of the lack of sex I have along with being constantly rejected, heartbroken, friendzoned and ghosted most of my life by women. I be cold approaching in stores etc and putting in effort but it goes no where. I was going talk to my therapist about this. I sometimes feel a little jealous when I see couples online or out in public it’s like it triggers me sometimes like damn what am I doing wrong. This is another big reason why I kind of gave up on dating and realized I will never find love and never be married. Sometimes a reason why I don’t want to live a long life like pass 50-60 as well. How do you guys handle all of this? Any tips? Any suggestions? Like I said before I tried the cold approach but it goes no where. Do I need to put myself in another environment etc? Plus lots of people like coworkers, close friends, and family tell me I’m not a bad looking dude at all. Got nice brown skin with Afro with a good build on me as well. Have talked to women at work and other places to improve my ways as well but just gots to see what works and what doesn’t work.

This is another thing I struggle with in my childhood, teenage years, and sometimes young adult life like currently now. How do you guys overcome your insecurities? How do you guys embrace it? How do you deal with it?

One of my posts from a couple months ago I know I mentioned I wanted to stop simping, being awkward, weird, and getting attached to girls. Another thing I painfully realized whenever I get mad at a girl is that I would start calling them names or like threaten to leak their nudes I had and stuff. This was stuff that had happened in the past in my late teens and early 20s. Saw a comment from the post I made a couple months ago about it from Joeybfast about how to not turn girls into a villain inside your head and not call them names. This is why I had mostly stopped getting nudes and OF from women because I really wanted to work on and change myself from that stuff. I wanted to work on controlling my anger and emotions whenever a girl makes me mad or upset so I won’t do that stuff no more. I have improved myself and worked on it after painfully realizing this in my early 20s around age 23. This was mainly in my late teens and early 20s. Around ages 23, 24, and 25 which I am now and wanted to work on and change from. Was go talk to my therapist about this in my next session. Any tips and suggestions from you guys? I appreciate you all frfr.