Confused any forward advice
I just found out I was pregnant last week(first pregnancy) which I was really excited about. A couple of days later after finding out, a girl messaged me on FB asking to speak with me about my husband. Mind you, all this he did was after finding out I was pregnant.
First thing I did was ask my husband who she was and what she was going to tell me. He proceeded to tell me that she was selling her underwear on FB Marketplace and he bought it because it’s always been a fetish of his. When he told me this I just giggled and told him that was silly and gave him my undies.
Well, the girl ended up calling me and told me that he bought a bathing suit from her and proceeded to send her photos of him in it. And afterwards she sold him more undies and he kept sending her multiple photos of him in panties(including some of mine). I was SHOCKED and unprepared for that, I was not expecting that at all.
I was very hurt and confused especially because he almost came off like he kept harassing the girl to go with him to get a massage together, to go to sex shop… and she also told me that he wanted to get his p sucked by a man and that he met up with a trans.
My husband was so sorry and he said that he was too embarrassed to tell me. I’m so hurt because I work like a dog trying to provide and I feel like he’s just doesnt use his time wisely because he has flexibility while driving Uber… which is so fucking annoying to me because while I’m working he’s out fulfilling his sexual desires behind my back.
Anyways, its so difficult because I cant see him the same anymore and I’ve lost all trust. I just don’t know how to move on from this, especially because I feel like he ruined what was supposed to be one of the happiest moments of our lives. I love him and I want to support him but it doesn’t turn me on. I think I would be ok if he does this in private and online and not with anyone local. I’m just too afraid of someone exposing him or something.