u/ssleekk__

Ain’t looking for nobody and Idk if pwede ‘to mga mods. Baka pwedeng let this pass na lang hahaha nakakayamot e.

I’ve been having a really nice day today pero someone’s live in partner just messaged me HAHAHA. I have no knowledge that he’s with someone kasi he sold himself as single and never been involved with anyone. We spoke and met once months ago because of the post I made in this subreddit and never talked to him again kasi may na feel akong off about him. Then hours ago, nag DM saken live-in partner/ long time girlfriend niya asking if nakausap ko ba yung partner niya.

To all men here, kung hindi na kayo masaya sa kasama niyo, wag kayong mandamay. Ok? Pag usapan niyo yan or mag hiwalay kayo. IRDGAF. Wag lang kayong mandamay ng nag hahanap ng genuine shit.

And with all that, I just lost all hope for men.

Soooooo it’s me again. Char! As if may makakilala HAHAHA

May mga na-meet na ako from this subreddit and they were genuinely cool dudes—sweet, funny, cute, and charming. It just didn’t work out, and that’s okay. 😊

Madami ring nag-DM sa previous post ko (thank you 🥹). I only replied to the ones who genuinely caught my attention. Some wanted to meet almost immediately, which I completely understand. Chatting takes time, and some people would rather know right away if there’s chemistry.

If isa kayo sa mga nakausap ko before, hello! 😭 Sorry kung parang ang hirap kong ayain. I wasn’t trying to waste anyone’s time. I just realized that I build trust a little slower than most people.

So this time, gusto ko lang maging upfront. Please be gentle with me if I say I need a bit more time before meeting in person. I feel more comfortable getting to know someone first through conversations. Once I’m comfortable, promise hindi naman ako impossible yayain. I just need that sense of safety first.

About me:
-5’ flat
-Chubby
-HR in the automotive industry
-Born and raised in QC
-Madaldal kapag magaan kausap. Kahit anong topic, game ako.
-Mahilig sa movies, random life conversations, at kanal humor.
-Family-oriented.

What I’m looking for:
-Around 27–30 years old
-Kind and emotionally mature.
-Funny, please. 😭
-Kayang magdala ng conversation. Hindi puro “haha” lang ang reply.
-Bonus points kung deep at medyo raspy yung boses mo. Ang calming lang pakinggan. 😂

I’m not looking for an instant relationship. I just want to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to. If it turns into something more, great. If not, at least we had a good conversation.

PS: If your first message is just “hi” or “hello,” tulungan mo naman ako. Give me something to reply to. 😂

Hi! I’m 27, from Quezon City, standing proudly at 5’0.

By profession, I’m an HR Assistant in an automotive dealership. Outside work, you’ll usually find me binge-watching movies, spending time with family, or driving around. Fun fact: I drive a manual transmission like a pro, so if you’re impressed by girls who don’t panic on uphill roads, that’s one point for me already. HAHA.

Personality-wise, I’m madaldal—but only when the energy is matched. I love conversations that naturally flow from random jokes to deep life stories at 2 AM. Family is also a huge part of my life, so I’m hoping to meet someone who values theirs too.

As for what I’m looking for? Someone who’s intentional about dating and open to building a genuine connection. Bonus points if you’re tall (around 5’9”–5’11”), moreno, cute, and funny. “Handsome” feels intimidating; cute is much more my type.

What really catches my attention, though, is a guy who has stories to tell—those experiences that make you stop and think, “Damn, you’ve really lived a life.” I love learning about people and hearing perspectives that are completely different from mine.

If you’re emotionally mature, can carry a conversation, and are genuinely looking for a partner rather than just someone to pass time with, send me a message. Tell me something about yourself that most people don’t know.

Let’s see where a good conversation takes us.