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32 [F4A] So it seems redditors are more interested in the book club I run than dating me 😅
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32 [F4A] So it seems redditors are more interested in the book club I run than dating me 😅

Hello again to this sub! 😆 I unfortunately did not get any successful dates (zero dates, actually lol 💀). This is in relation to the thread I first posted here: https://www.reddit.com/r/singleph/s/duqP5XWkY2

A little feedback on my experience as a first time poster:
-No matter how detailed you are pala, people will still waste their first chat by just saying "Hi" instead of putting meat into their message from the get-go?
-Men here are more interested to talk about themselves and what they want than get to know you in person
-When they do seem like someone who has depth, as soon as I reply with heart and intent, they disappear LOLOL
-Asks to transfer to TG (? I dont wanna have to add another app on my phone just to talk, sorry)

So because of that dissatisfactory, dare I say... awful experience, I've resolved to just continue living my life as I have been normally doing and just going to invite you all to come have reading sessions instead! 😁

What I personally like reading:
-Memoirs
-Professional development books
-Books about sports entertainment
-Dystopian stories

What you have to read:
-Anything you fancy! As long as we can read together :)

u/hellholeflailer — 11 days ago

26 [F4M] Hoping to find my forever here

I’m seriously looking for a man who is genuinely ready to settle down. A man who is mature, knows what he wants, and isn’t still figuring out the basics of life. I prefer someone who is no longer a student and has a decent, stable job. WFH is a plus, but it’s not required.

My preferred age is 30–35, but if you’re a little older and genuinely ready to settle down, you can still message me.

A few things I’m looking for:

* No kids yet, because I want us to have our own children together.

* No vices! Like no smoking, illegal drugs, gambling, excessive drinking, or ₱orn addiction.

*Ideally 5'6" and above because I’m really attracted to taller men.

*Someone who is confident and sure about his decisions in life, especially when it comes to getting to know someone. I don’t want either of us to waste our time.

*Christ-centered and God-fearing.

*Not batugan/tamad/ or anything na ayaw mo rin sa babae

*Can cook and do groceries

*And I hope you’re ready to eat dinuguan with me because it’s one of my favorite foods. hehe

*I also prefer someone who likes calling, because I’m not really a chatty person. I’d rather talk than text all day.

A little about me:

*I’m the type of woman who loves to work. A LOT. 😂 I literally work EVERY DAY. Why? Kasi wala akong jowa. HAHAHA. So maybe you can be the reason I finally learn how to take a break from work. 🤭

*I’m a plus-size woman, and I prefer to be honest about that rather than simply calling myself “chubby.” I’m currently working on myself because I want to be in better shape and hopefully build my own family before I turn 30.

* I may not that so beautiful but my heart is.

*can cook and do groceries

*I don’t have any vices, so you won’t have to worry about that with me.

*I love watching anime, movies, and those short dramas on TikTok*.* *I’m also okay with an LDR as long as we’re both serious about where the relationship is going.

*I’m from North Luzon, by the way.

I posted a photo here so you can send one din sana.

I used to have waist-length hair, but I recently cut it really short. Because long hair became a struggle when I work out at night after my shift. Short hair is much easier to manage, dries faster, and lets me sleep sooner and kinda sad because I talked to someone here pero trial card lang pala siya. Hayss🤦‍♀️

If you think we might be a good match, please send me your details and your non-negotiables when it comes to women and relationships.

And please, I’m begging you, don’t just send “Hi,” “Hello,” “Nakahanaap ka na ba?” or “Tara usap sa TG.” 😭

I’m not looking for low-effort conversations, so low-effort messages will be ignored.

If you’re genuinely looking for something serious, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what kind of relationship you want.

Let’s not waste each other’s time. If you’re serious, I’m serious too. Have a blessed Sunday everyone! ❤️

u/Lily_tulippsss — 11 days ago
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23 [F4M] looking for kausap who can baby and spoil me ^^

hi! i'm riri. i'm looking for someone who i can yap to— someone who can baby me and spoil me ^^ i'm not looking for something temporary so pls if ghoster ka, doon ka sa far away :< i'm tired of meeting new people.. i just want to find the loml

about me:

- in college

- from albay

- 5'2

- i'm a vvv clingy in person

- night owl. that my friends get so worried about my body clock since ang usual time ng pag sleep ko is around 3-5 am

- has medium frame

- have strict parents so bawal mag visit sa malalayong place and need uwian after dates

- wears glasses (been wearing one ever since i was 7 yrs old)

- foodie (comfort food; ice cream and fries)

- i love to yap nonstop specially once i become comfy so pls expect my random yapping about true crime, greek mythology, pandas and politics (🌸 iykyk)

about you:

- 25-30 yrs old

- willing pumunta ng albay for me (plus points if taga bicol ka din) ><

- taller than me

- chinito (🤪)

- may sense kausap (wag puro landi pls :<)

- chalant. if nonchalant ka don't bother messaging me huhu

- works out or goes to the gym cos i need someone who could inspire din to work out since i have love handles lmao

- patient, soft spoken with no anger issues

sfw only !!! :3

u/strawberimuch — 12 days ago

25 [F4M] I think it's time for me to start dating...

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About me:

- I'm one of those na piniling mag-focus sa studies talaga during my younger years. Ang mindset ko, if wala akong sariling money to date then wala ako karapatan makipag date. I passed the BE last year, and currently working. Now, gusto ko rin matry makipagdate.

- Home buddy (okay lang din lumabas pero wag naman araw-araw😭)

- Loves watching movies/series (horror or crime) and listening to music (FOB, ARTTM, the1975)

- Can listen to you talk for hours

- 5'3

- Normal BMI

- Cute daw?! (di ko sure)

About you

- at least 25 yrs old

- at least 5'3 din (if 5'2 and a half, dapat may buhok)

- Working and earning decently (insert: mahal magmahal by esremborak)

- Cute (if cute sa mata ng nanay mo, pwede na rin)

- Funny and Kind

- WALANG ASAWA/GF!!!😤

- Plus points if same tayo ng music taste!🫶

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u/DarkestSoulOnEarth — 11 days ago

33 [M4F] Date?

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Hi,

Anyone down for a movie, coffee or Japenese dinner date?

Preferrably around Makati, BGC or around MOA/Aseana

About me:

33 from Paranaque

5'8 Moreno and Medium buid

Working professional (9 to 5 work in creatives)

Single but fulltime father for 4 JRT Doggos

Introvert but Yapper

Loves Japanese food and coffee

About you:

Decent, presentable and maraming dalang kwento

Active lifestyle (preference lang🙂)

Politically Aware - Not DDS or member ng fanatic kulto religion

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u/atticusfault — 11 days ago

30 [M4F] be my consistent one!

Okay, taking a shot here and seeing if Reddit can somehow help me again find someone worth getting to know. 😂

I'm 30, from Rizal, currently working for the government, around 5'8" and 65kg. Fun fact: I used to be 43kg when I started working, so I guess adulthood and government work finally fed me well. 😂

For hobbies, I mostly play Valorant during my free time. I peaked at Immortal, but these days it's really just pampalipas oras. So if you play too, we can duo, argue over who's throwing, then pretend we're not mad at each other after the game. 😂

About you 👀

Any age is okay, basta hindi minor.

Clingy is a must. I actually like someone who enjoys attention, constant communication, and being sweet.

Chubby is absolutely okay. Basta hindi yung taba na mapipisak ako kapag yumakap ka. Eme. 😂

Risk taker — spontaneous and willing to try new things.

Bonus if you're from Antipolo or somewhere nearby.

And preferably someone who's willing to meet soon if we actually vibe. I'm not looking for a forever online conversation. 😅

As for what I'm looking for, I'm not rushing into anything serious. I'd rather start casually—talk, get to know each other, grab food or coffee, go somewhere, laugh at stupid things, and see if we genuinely enjoy each other's company.

But at the same time, I'm not closed off to something deeper.

So if you're the marupok type, don't worry. 😂 This post isn't a trap and I'm not here to waste your time or disappear the moment you start liking me. If we click and feelings develop naturally, I'm open to seeing where it takes us. No need to force a label right away, but I'm also not afraid of something real if that's where we end up.

Basically: casual start, genuine intentions, and open to something more.

If you think you might be the person I'm describing, introduce yourself. Don't just send “Hi” please. 😂

Tell me your age, where you're from, what you're into, what kind of person you are, or anything that would make me want to know more about you.

Give me something to reply to. 👀

Who knows? Maybe this random Reddit post is how we end up having our first coffee together. 😏

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u/HalimawMaglandi — 11 days ago

27 [F4M] Last post

Ain’t looking for nobody and Idk if pwede ‘to mga mods. Baka pwedeng let this pass na lang hahaha nakakayamot e.

I’ve been having a really nice day today pero someone’s live in partner just messaged me HAHAHA. I have no knowledge that he’s with someone kasi he sold himself as single and never been involved with anyone. We spoke and met once months ago because of the post I made in this subreddit and never talked to him again kasi may na feel akong off about him. Then hours ago, nag DM saken live-in partner/ long time girlfriend niya asking if nakausap ko ba yung partner niya.

To all men here, kung hindi na kayo masaya sa kasama niyo, wag kayong mandamay. Ok? Pag usapan niyo yan or mag hiwalay kayo. IRDGAF. Wag lang kayong mandamay ng nag hahanap ng genuine shit.

And with all that, I just lost all hope for men.

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u/ssleekk__ — 11 days ago

32 [M4F] Content creator on YouTube, looking for my other creative half.

About me:

- 5'10" because apparently height matters here.

- I'm literally working my ahh off to be a full time animator on YouTube.

- I love working on/making stuff with my hands.

- Single cat dad (practically an indoor cat myself).

- Hindi tayo magkakasundo sa inuman (I don't drink/smoke).

You can look at my reddit account if you wanna see the stuff I've been doing with my life lol.

About you:

- Preferably a creative person too.

- Will understand that my organic hand drawn content takes a lot of time and effort (para satin din to lmao).

- Maybe wala din bisyo haha.

Not much on the requirements here. I wanna know more about you personally.

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u/BlepMaster500 — 11 days ago

29 [F4M] hoping there are still good guys here

Looking to meet someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things can go.

Not rushing into anything (pero sana makahabol sa pasko hahahah)—just intentional dating with the possibility of building something real if we click.

About me:
- corporate girly
- 29
- from east
- 155cm, normal to curvy (not obese)
- decent looks
- loves to: exploring new places, films, run/jog, reading, bed-rotting haha

About u:
- employed/self employed
- great character and outgoing person
- tall and healthy
- between 27-37
- hopefully youre nearby or no prob to travel at all

Dating with intention only, pls. 🙏🏻

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u/allukachwan — 11 days ago

26 [M4F] Be the tear that hangs inside my soul forever

Ok that title's pretty intense but the song's just stuck in my head ok?

Been too busy with work for the last 4 years and now that things are looking stable, naiinggit na ulit ako sa mga couples na nakikita ko sa mall : ( .

I miss being corny, sweet and not-so-serious all the time. I miss the sweet banality of a relationship well built and most of all, just somebody who looks at me like I mean the world to them.

Anyway a little about me:

-26 (27 on the 8th!)

-5'10, 5'11 with better posture

-Moreno

-Fit but not chiseled-from-marble fit

-Born to be an artist, forced to do capitalism

-Conversationalist (I'll be your personal podcast fr)

-God, my humor is weird. I don't even know how to describe it anymore

When it comes to interests:

-Books: everything except self-help tbh

-Sports I like and partake in: Weightlifting, Boxing

-Sports I like but I don't partake in: Baseball, Basketball

-Drawing!

-Music: Rap, R&B, Jazz, honestly a bit of anything interesting

-Politics: In principle I'm a leftist, in practice I've sold my soul to capital :(

Anyhow, about you:

-Don't be a minor (lord knows ya'll are here)

-be nice to me

-takes care of themselves, physically and mentally

-talkative is like the biggest plus. I promise to reciprocate

Intro yourself! Say something interesting about you and let's build the next few months (years (?)) off that HAHA.

P.S. It's like 2am as I'm posting so please be interested in the morning still.

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u/pulang_itlog — 11 days ago

26 [M4F] genuine connection to possible relationship

Looking for genuine connection na possible maging girlfriend, nakakamiss din pala kiligin hahaha. Oh baket? Totoo naman ah.

Seryoso naman akong tao, kung playtime lang ang usapan. Pass na muna ako, sa edad kong to long term na hanap ko. Not short time.

Single ka? Looking ka rin? Edi try natin.

About me:

- 26 years old

- Working 

- 5'7 height

- Normal BMI

- Non smoker

- Taga Alabang

- Umiinom pero mahina lang

- Ito series like Game of Thrones

- Nag ja-jogging and gym dati, pero natigil na gawa ng employed ako.

- Mahilig mag beach

- Mas naniniwala sa personality kaysa sa beauty ng appearance

About you:

- Age: 20-32 years old

- Single, walang jowa o ka cool off. Mahirap na baka may bumaril sakin sa labas pag kasama kita.

- Working or studying

- Body size? I don't care.

- Yung ready to commit na, pass sa mga laro laro lang or past time. I don't waste my time, time is money.

If you are interested, just hit me up.

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u/Puyat-Na-Naman — 11 days ago

34 [M4F] kausap habang nagwowork

Hi, hanap lang nang kausap/hangout/movie/roadtrip

About me:
- 34
- male
- 5’7
- Pampanga
- Licensed professional
- runner
- pickleball(new sport tara?) haha
- loves to cook
- i like sponty long drives
- pale pilsen(number 1 beer for me)

About you:
- 30-35
- Any body type wag lang super + size?
- be you!
- basta masaya kausap and can carry yourself g!

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u/Consistent_Ad_3884 — 10 days ago

25 [F4M] Metro Manila, Life’s too short not to be in love.

Ungatekeeping myself by putting myself out here! I’ve been enjoying my alone time and maybe getting a little too comfortable with my solitude, but I miss going on cute dates :( So before I sign up for bumble again, I’d like to try my luck here first.

I’m not really rushing into a relationship naman, but I’m v straightforward and intentional with dating. I don’t date or even talk to anyone unless I see potential for them to be part of my future (hahha oa???) Basta I hate pointless good morning / good night messages 🏃🏼‍♀️‍➡️

I’m looking for someone I can actually see and spend time with in person, so proximity is a huge factor. I like someone who takes initiative. I’m tired of the dating phase where you’re just constantly talking and updating each other about your lives. I swear I’m a good conversationalist, but I feel like I’m at a point in my life where I’m starting to be more intentional with what I do and who I spend my time with.

Also, someone who knows what he wants in life. I can’t date someone who’s just looking for casual relationships because he’s afraid to be alone,,,

I hope this post makes sense?? 😭 Hindi ako nagmamadali magkaroon ng so, but I want to connect with someone who shares the same dating goal as me hehe na to actually meet “that person” :)

I don’t have any baggage from past relationships, walang talking stages, walang situationship na hinihintay bumalik, ni crush wala hhahha amboring

A little background about me:
• I’m introverted and reserved, but I’m outgoing once I’m comfortable.
• I don’t smoke, I don’t drink, but let me tell you I got this ring.
• I love every form of art (films, photography, visual arts, music).
• I love literature and read in my free time to lessen my screen time na rin.
• I <3 side quests! I love trying out new activities, new places, and new food!
• I’m sensitive but not afraid of hard conversations.
• Currently busy sa career but I can make time I swear
• Socially and politically aware. Loyalty sa people, hindi sa mga political parties.
• Normal BMI.

About you:
• 25–29, lives in Metro Manila.
• Shares at least one of my interests so we have something to bond over.
• Honest and open with his feelings, hindi nonchalant.
• Socially aware, emotionally intelligent, and hindi na kailangan lecturan about basic human decency.
• Not a smoker or heavy drinker.
• Career-driven and goal-oriented.
• May sariling hobbies.
• 5'7"+, normal BMI (all bodies are beautiful, preference lang sorry)

Dealbreakers:
• May NSFW sa profile. I like to keep everything wholesome.
• Fresh from a breakup (relationship or situationship).
• May anak.

I’m not picky with looks naman, but I believe attraction is important, so I’m open to exchanging more info! SFW only pls :)

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u/vpoflwdbgw — 11 days ago

36 [F4M] South NCR — Hoping to find a gentle kind of love

Hi! Tita here, looking for her person. 😅

At this point in my life, I’m dating with intention. I’m not expecting us to have everything figured out right away, but I do hope we’re working toward the same things. I’d love to build a family in the next 2–4 years, so I’m looking for someone who’s also ready to build something real—not just someone who wants to see where things go indefinitely.

A little about me: I’m 35, 5’1”, morena, and working in finance, although I’ve always been interested in science and tech. I work midshift, Monday to Friday, and I’m currently trying to be more consistent with my 10k steps, 4–5 times a week. It would be nice to have someone who’d enjoy walking with me, even if it’s just a simple evening stroll. I love cooking and baking, exploring new restaurants, and reading whenever life gives me the time. I drink occasionally, but I’m not really the type to drink with strangers. I’m also overweight and working on becoming healthier, so I appreciate someone who understands that taking care of yourself is a journey.

I’m hoping to meet someone who’s 33 or older, single (never married or legally separated is okay), emotionally mature, kind, and financially independent. Someone who knows what he wants, communicates well, and doesn’t have a short fuse. I’m not too particular about body type—slim to bear build is fine—as long as you’re active enough to enjoy walks with me. Since I love cooking and trying different food spots, it would be great if you weren’t a picky eater. 😂

I also value being politically aware. We don’t have to agree on everything, but I’d appreciate someone who thinks critically, values accountability, and doesn’t blindly idolize politicians.

Location-wise, I’m keeping it South NCR—Muntinlupa, Parañaque, Las Piñas, or Taguig. Nothing against everyone else, but I’ve learned that I’d rather meet someone I can actually spend time with without having to cross the entire Metro Manila. 😅

If you decide to message me, please tell me your age, location, what you’re looking for, and a little something about yourself. A thoughtful introduction goes a long way.

I’m not looking for perfection, just someone whose intentions match mine. Someone I can laugh with, share ordinary days with, make plans with, and hopefully build a life with.

Here’s to finding a gentle kind of love, even at this age. ❤️

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u/AnxiousCoffee29 — 11 days ago