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21 [F4A] another episode of: ano iniisip mo pag nakainom ka?

at dahil uminom na naman ako dahil soafer stressed na naman ako sa academics (ayoko n pls) eto na naman ang isip ko na GUSTO KO NA MAG JOWAAAA.

super pagod na ako, kanino ako mag susumbong? kanino ako magpapababy? sino gagawin kong pahinga? nga-nga?

gusto ko na mag mahaaaaaaalll GUSTO KO NA MAG MAHAL

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u/grasyadisgrasya — 7 hours ago

21 [F4M] lf kausap everyday

Not looking for anything romantic right now. I want constant kausap na light to be around , can make me laugh, and chill lang. not interested in any romantic rel but a genuine friendship siguro.

Goal: Kahit ano basta makakausap araw araw.
For what: could be anything like u can tell me about ur rants in life and i will listen to u kahit all day pa. (If i have time)

Like ive been dealing with so many things lately and i just want a breather

About me:
-maayos na tao and decent
-normal bmi

About you
-kind and understanding
- down to talk to me everyday
-clingy sana, (kahit di ako mag reply okay lang) still send me updates
-we stay discreet, i can chat here or tg only. dont wanna take it to a personal level
-not a perv, wholesome lang

No nsfw pls

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u/CauliflowerNo732 — 8 hours ago

26 [F4M] Let’s go on fun dates? 🤓

Hi! I’m F26 and not sure if this is the right place for this, but it is what it is 😭

I’m single, 5’4 and a half 🌚, chinita (no, I’m not filchi 🤦🏻‍♀️), and I’d say I’m pretty slim. I do yoga and Pilates a lot, so it’d be nice if you’d be down to try them with me hahaha. I also love hiking, so pls at least be open to trying it too HAHAHA I’m pretty strict about this tbh.

I work in marketing with a 9–5 schedule, so it’d be nice if your sched is similar so weekday work won’t be an issue!

I’m mostly a homebody unless it’s for pilates, yoga, or work, though I do like going out to visit cafés, restaurants, and spend time in nature with my siblings and friends. I’m a huge foodie, and we LOVE speakeasies. I usually hang out with the same people too loool

I’m pretty chill honestly, unless it’s a night out with friends, because those are always chaotic HAHAHAHAHAHA

Would be nice if you’re taller than me too pls 😭 and preferably around 25–30!

Also open to meeting up irl eventually, but we definitely need to pass the vibe check first hahaha

PS. Don’t just say hi cause I’ll ignore it 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/No-Broccoli-5670 — 9 hours ago

24 [F4M] Pa rant lang saglit

Mga tao rito hindi man lang lumalagpas sa 24 hours😭 HAHAHAHAHA

*Feeling ko madedelete 'tong post ko kasi masyado na namang maikli🫠

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u/StandardGrade9537 — 12 hours ago

35 [F4M] LF secret friend

One emotionally safe human being for late-night talks, fun, random food trips, spontaneous chika, and mutual life escape.

About you:

*Professional
* Attractive / good looking enough to distract me from stress
* Funny because life is already serious enough
* Can keep secrets locked tighter than a vault
* Hygienic please 😭
*Low maintenance but consistent
*Respectful of boundaries
* Trustworthy and emotionally intelligent

About me:
Same as you

This is for platonic friendship only

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u/Lower_Deal_7479 — 20 hours ago
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27 [F4M] Hoping to find something genuine 🤍

A little about me ✨

• 5’0 with extrovert energy
• Furmom ng isang dog 🐶
• Nagru-run ng konti pag feeling productive hahaha
• Loves thriller movies, OPM, and random late-night conversations
• Mahilig sa nature trips and hiking (kahit last hike ko last year pa 😭)
• Marunong magluto… basta may YouTube tutorial, kayang-kaya 😂
• Mabilis magreply kapag hindi busy
• Easily appreciates small efforts

About you 🤍

• Around 27–33 years old
• Preferably 5’6 and above
• Moreno or chinito? Bonus na lang let’s just see the vibe 😌 (okay din ako sa exchange ng pictures)
• Soft-spoken at marunong mag-handle ng emotions
(non-negotiable ang walang anger issues pls 🙏)
• Knows how to communicate and means it
• Emotionally present at kayang maki-match ng energy
• Please lang, hindi nonchalant 😭
• Alam na kung ano gusto niya sa buhay hindi yung nasa “play play” phase pa rin 😌

Malay mo naman, baka tayo na yun oh! Let’s see where it goes. 🤍

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u/Same-Talk5421 — 19 hours ago

25 [f4m] - worth the risk

gusto ko na ma-in love huhu 🥹

yung kind of love na stable, calm, and peaceful lang. no games, no chaos… just two people choosing each other and growing every day.

ang fantasy today ay magkaroon ng ka-DINK couple tapos i’ll cook for us everyday, make sandwiches before work, design and decorate our place, then we’ll just talk about our days at night while existing quietly together.

is that too much to ask for 🥲

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u/g-block-baudelaire — 22 hours ago

28 [F4M] Dating with Intention (+ more)

We're halfway through 2026 and there are goals I have yet to achieve before the year ends... so I'm locking in! But it would also be nice to experience this journey together with a like-minded individual. 😊

My goal is to be physically fit (fit!!) and emotionally resilient before the new year—if this is also a priority of yours, maybe we can start as accountability buds!

We're not getting any younger so it will be a bonus if we get along and decide to see where things go as well. 😉

Relevant stuff you should know abt me:
- runs but not consistently yet
- beginner in tennis and wants to be a competitive player 😆
- enjoys occasional pilates and bouldering
- used to do HIIT workouts and strength training
- joined a major hike years ago and it won't be the last
- journals at times; keen to trying meditation
- fond of resetting in nature

Other stuff you may want to know abt me:
- 5'2, slim to ave build
- 7.5-8/10 (if you adore pretty smiles! Haha)
- hygienic and presentable; working pro
- mostly chill but can adapt socially
- can carry trivial to intellectual conversations
- enjoys adventures and learning new things
- values honesty, communication, and understanding
- appreciates good coffee and cocktails

Preferably and hopefully you are:
- cute, taaaller than me
- single and knows what he wants
- hygienic and presentable, working pro
- smart and intellectual but still fun to be with :)
- self-aware; values honesty, communication, and understanding

See you! I'll start replying later tonight hehe

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u/Ok-Coconut-2222 — 22 hours ago

27 [F4M] Just wanted to share my experience

I met someone here on Reddit in r/singleph and we’ve been talking for almost a month. I genuinely liked how he conversed, he seemed mature, intelligent and we clicked easily. He also told me he was emotionally available and looking to settle down which made me feel like we were on the same page.

The day we were supposed to meet, he picked me up right outside our gate. Everything went well. We went for a walk, which was actually what we had already planned prior to meeting. He was a gentleman the entire time and I honestly would say he was really smart and easy to talk to.

Before meeting up, he mentioned he came all the way from the South. I appreciated the effort a lot. He also said he might book a room afterward to rest and sleep before driving back home since he had been on the road for hours.

I asked him, "No malice, but can I join you if you’re getting a room? There’s a rotational brownout in our area and I need to charge my phone since it’s already dead". He said, "Yes, sure you can".

Fast forward, we were already in the room. We watched a movie and I even told him to get some rest since he still had a long drive ahead. I didn’t feel any harm being with him.

Meanwhile, he asked if he could hug me and I said yes. I felt butterflies while we were hugging and before I knew it we were already kissing but I stopped it because it didn’t feel right and we were both talking about wanting something longterm and it felt like things were moving too fast. I told him we should stop and just rest instead and I went back to watching the movie.

After a few minutes, things changed. He started using force trying to make me lie down and get on top of me. I immediately said firmly, "If you don’t stop, I will consider what you are doing is rape". That’s when he stopped right away. After that, I told him "Yes, I initiated coming here with you but that does not give you permission to use force on me".

He went quiet, apologized and told me to just continue watching while I charged my phone and that he would just rest.

Afterward, he still drove me home and dropped me off.

I’m sharing this for self-awareness and as a gentle reminder for guys to please be clear and intentional with your intentions from the beginning. There’s no need to be deceptive or hypocrite just be honest about what you’re really looking for so we, as women, can better set our boundaries and expectations.

I blocked him already! 😂

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u/Doratheexplorer321 — 1 day ago

25 [F4A] how do you define an “intimidating” woman?

Just crowdsourcing for opinions. I’m single bc potential partners find me “intimidating” and with all the kindness that I give out into the world everyday, I don’t understand why.

If you find someone intimidating, what are the signs, reasons, and qualities does the person have?

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u/midnightlays — 1 day ago

28 [F4M] | Voice Call

Woke up early and suddenly felt like talking to someone about literally anything.

Not actively looking for something romantic, but if the vibe naturally goes there, I’m open to it.

About me:
- 28
- Working professional
- Can carry conversations beyond “kumain ka na?”
- Into random topics, life talks, humor, and chill company

Who’s still up?
TG or Discord works.

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u/Mrdinosaurmuse — 1 day ago

30 [M4F] Age will change tomorrow!

So, tomorrow, I'll be having my birthday. And with the turning of the years comes the realization that I am still single at 31, a probability I didn't foresee when I was 25 (well, seeing as I was dating someone back then.) So, since I recently got a few milestones in life as well, I think I'm ready to date again.

A little about me. I'm 5'7", working in the manufacturing industry in Batangas. I've got your typical Pinoy looks and leaning more on the heavier side (but I'm working on it.) I came from the Big 3 (if that matters) and will celebrate 10-years of working sometime this year.

There are three things that I can say I am a huge fan of: Pokemon, One Piece, and music (hiphop and rap are my main genre but you could say I enjoy the occasional Taylor Swift and Dionela.) I grew up watching Disney movies too so I enjoy musical movies and theater, although I vowed not to indulge too much this year. I am still waiting for Phantom to get a Philippine showing.

I am an atheist who grew up in Catholic household and used to study in a Christian school. This results to a niche interest in the Roman Catholic papacy (yes, I am heavily invested in the papacy and the conclave ever since JPII died.)

So, I guess feel free to drop in my DMs. Message me a happy birthday. If you want to know more, let me know what captured your interest from all the things I said and make a short intro about yourself too and let's move from there. If not, at least wish me a happy birthday.

So yeah. Happy Wednesday everybody.

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u/suwampert — 1 day ago

26[M4F] late night call?

Hi I'm new to this subreddit and I'm just looking for someone to have a late night Congo with.

About me: 5'8, slim body, mestizo l, chill and funny, into reading and music and many more.

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u/Too-sheisty — 1 day ago

21 [F4A] get me out of here, i want to breathe

hi, i just want to breathe outside today. let me get out of here. i just want someone to be with me and let me open up myself cuz feel ko napupuno na naman ako hahahahaha as someone who wants to keep it all to myself tapos isahang breakdown hahahahaha :)) pls pls 🙏🏻

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u/niniyaah — 1 day ago

28 [M4F] Metro Manila – Looking for my long-term person. Let’s build something real.

​I figured it’s time to properly put myself out there again. I’m genuinely looking to build a sincere, stable, and long-term relationship with someone special.

​About Me:

​- 28M, based in Metro Manila. Non-smoker, no tattoos.

​Profession: Working in the medical field. Because of this, I’m highly responsible, committed, and completely understand demanding schedules and busy lifestyles.

​Personality: People usually describe me as genuinely kind, soft-spoken, mature, and understanding (but i mostly show my silly sode to my partner if i'm already comfortable showing it). I value seeing things from other perspectives and always prefer calm, composed conversations over unnecessary drama. I’m usually straightforward when asked about things.

​Lifestyle: I appreciate peaceful moments and quality time—whether that’s exploring good food, having deep conversations, or just chilling. I value genuine human connection above all else. I believe in building a strong foundation first, rooted in trust, honesty, and open communication.

​About You:

​Age & Location: Ideally 21–30 years old (give or take, as long as we align) and based within or near Metro Manila.

​Appearance: Height doesn’t matter to me at all. I’m attracted to a variety of body types—whether you have a fit, average, or curvy build, I'm completely open to it as long as we connect. I just prefer someone who is mindful of their health and maintains a reasonably active lifestyle. Just don't be obese please.

​Personality: Genuinely kind, sincere, and mature (someone who understands their emotions and values open communication, rather than just bottling things up).

​Lifestyle & Values: Someone who appreciates quiet quality time, understands the demands of a busy professional life, and is ready for a serious, committed relationship. I'm looking for someone who has processed their past and is ready to start fresh without carrying old relationship baggage.

​Bonus: A good sense of humor is always a massive plus! I can't be the only one who's funny.

​If this resonates with you and you’re looking for something real, steady, and lasting, feel free to send a DM. Let’s introduce ourselves and see where the conversation takes us!

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35[M] goodbye, singeph

Tried for numerous times here. Hindi nag work.
Iba parin ang organic encounter. And now im finally getting married! Sa kung saan saan pa ako ng hanap, yung kakilala ko rin lang pala. Haha
Kaya guys,

  1. Attend lang ng mga reunion, mapa elem, highschool o college.
  2. Invest in yourself first. Madami dito ang mg sisignify ng interest pero pg meet up na wala na. Ikyk what i mean.
  3. Maging open minded. We look far and go extra miles just to meet someone, nameet mo na pla.
  4. Wag mawalan ng pag asa guys. Meron at meron. Pag nameet mo na ang the one mo you will know.

Join din kayo sa mga church activities. May mga org din like singles for Christ or kahit sa anong church basta join their activities.
Plus nlng din at same faith kame ni fw.
Will read the replies and will be deleting after few days. 😅😝

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u/Commercial-Hall9960 — 3 days ago

23[F4M] Keep me company

Currently looking for people who are down for random daytime calls habang nagpapanggap tayong productive.

You know those calls where “Kamusta work?” turns into “Do you ever think about how weird it is that we all just accepted emails as a lifestyle?”

About me:
23, works in business, caffeine-dependent, emotionally stable until around 3PM when the existential dread hits after lunch HAHAHA

Can talk about:

  • Work chika
  • Current fixations
  • Dumb observations
  • Life plans
  • Bakit mas masarap magtrabaho pag may kausap sa background
  • Or literally anything under the sun

Not necessarily looking for landi, just genuine company and people who know how to hold conversations beyond “ano gawa mo” 😭

Bonus points if:

  • Madaldal ka
  • Kanal humor enjoyer
  • Sends random thoughts out of nowhere
  • And can survive conversations that shift from serious to unhinged real quick

Introduce yourself properly pls. i need lore, not government-mandated “hi hello” messages. See ya ;)

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u/SharpStyle4943 — 2 days ago

31 [F4M] looking for someone to talk.

Hello there people! How are you? Who's not busy right now? I'm just bored and I want to talk with someone lang. Hehe. Let's have a good conversation right now if you're not busy. Thanks! 😊

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u/sweetpotato_95 — 2 days ago

33 [M4F] Nerdy, techy tito looking for something real, date to marry type

I'll keep this straightforward because that's just how I am.

33, graphic designer working remotely. Moreno, 5'10", lean build work in progress. Nag-gym thrice a week and recently started taking it seriously, progressive overload, tracking macros, the whole thing.

I'm a homebody but not the boring kind. Pretty nerdy and techy, I tinker with gadgets, build PCs, currently reviving an old PSP just because I can. When I'm not doing that, I'm gaming. I can play literally anything but currently rotating between an MMO, a fighting game, and a MOBA. I watch a lot of YouTube, Twitch, deep dive into internet culture, and I will absolutely yap about game lore if you let me.

But I do go out. Food trips, coffee, hiking, and I've been planning to do at least one out of town trip a month to explore different parts of the Philippines. Hindi pa nagsisimula pero malapit na. Would love to find someone to do all of this with, or just discover new things together.

Cat dad din to two chonky orange boys.

I play guitar and sing, (very selectively). I notice things in music most people don't. Production details, background sounds. It's a thing.

Sumasagot agad as soon as I can, as long as hindi busy. Pag busy, sasabihan kita beforehand para hindi ka maghintay ng wala. Antukin bilang trentahin, madalas nakakatulog na around 10-11.

About you: Chinita. Slim to curvy, as long as you take care of yourself. Ideally Laguna or nearby para mas madaling magkita. Or anywhere as long as you can handle LDR. Age 26-38

What I'm looking for: Someone serious, 'yung may intention talaga. Not just testing the waters. Gusto ko ng consistent presence and someone who's actually in it.

If you read this far, what's one thing you're really into right now that most people around you don't get?

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u/ultimark — 3 days ago