u/biscoffsammich

Disclaimer: I am not Fil-Chi. I just like singkit boys—moreno or maputi, it doesn’t really matter.

To be honest, you don’t have to be Fil-Chi or chinito! Just be cute pls!

🤎 Me:

- Works in finance for an FMCG.

- Normal BMI.

- I like going on long walks mostly after work.

- I stay in BGC.

- I love reading. Fave book of all time is Life of Pi, hence the tiger emoji. I’m also into thrillers and contemporary.

- I like cozy games. Fave game of all time is Stardew Valley. Sebastian is almost always my husband in my playthroughs because I love me a nerd 🤓

- I like discovering new cafes.

- I love museums and art galleries.

- On a mission to go on more self-dates actuallyyyy

- I love having a soft and slow life except my job is the opposite of that. So, in the same way, you’d get the best of both worlds with me 😌🍵

- Physical touch is my love language. I love holding hands, hugs, clinging onto my guy’s arms…

🤎 You:

- Lives in or near Metro Manila.

- Be taller than me. I’m already short at 5ft.

- Physically active or at least plays sports. Has normal BMI.

- Working professional.

- Has hobbies outside work.

- 28-33 y/o only.

- Ready for a serious commitment if ever (of course we have to see if we vibe first)

- CUTE.

See you in my dms :)

We are in the “exclusively dating” stage. However, I noticed that he keeps following pretty girls. Is this normal? Should I be worried?

This guy and I have been dating for about 4 months. We agreed that this will be exclusive. Siya actually nag-ask kung pwede kaming maging exclusive. Anyway, napansin ko lang na may mga finofollow siyang pretty girls na alam kong type niya (maputi, doktora, skinny). Kung finofollow na niya before pa kami mag-date, wala na kong pakialam kasi it’s in the past na diba? Pero laging may nadadagdag na bago. Inuunfollow din niya if hindi siya finollow back.

Ang daming pumapasok sa isip ko: 1) Hindi naman kami so technically he’s free. Pero what are the rules of dating exclusively?, 2) OA ba ko sa pag-check ng followings niya? Promise I’m not jobless, 3) A part of me feels disrespected and gusto ko na umayaw, 4) Asked guy friends din and may mga finofollow din naman daw silang ibang girls pero that doesn’t mean they’re being disloyal to their gfs. Idk how to feel about that.

Previous attempts: i tried opening this up to him nang pabiro. He said wala na siyang ibang kinakausap bukod sakin.

OA lang ba ako??? Should I stop giving a fuck???

Problem/Goal: We are in the “exclusively dating” stage. However, I noticed that he keeps following pretty girls. Is this normal? Should I be worried?

Context: This guy and I have been dating for about 4 months. We agreed that this will be exclusive. Siya actually nag-ask kung pwede kaming maging exclusive. Anyway, napansin ko lang na may mga finofollow siyang pretty girls na alam kong type niya (maputi, doktora, skinny). Kung finofollow na niya before pa kami mag-date, wala na kong pakialam kasi it’s in the past na diba? Pero laging may nadadagdag na bago. Inuunfollow din niya if hindi siya finollow back.

Ang daming pumapasok sa isip ko: 1) Hindi naman kami so technically he’s free. Pero what are the rules of dating exclusively?, 2) OA ba ko sa pag-check ng followings niya? Promise I’m not jobless, 3) A part of me feels disrespected and gusto ko na umayaw, 4) Asked guy friends din and may mga finofollow din naman daw silang ibang girls pero that doesn’t mean they’re being disloyal to their gfs. Idk how to feel about that.

Previous attempts: i tried opening this up to him nang pabiro. He said wala na siyang ibang kinakausap bukod sakin.