u/starburstkitty

My boyfriend has some alarming tendencies

He’s very kind and has been extremely protective in certain situations in the past which has made me trust him a lot more but there’s one thing that constantly confuses me. I’ve never met his family because his relationship with his parents is rocky and his other immediate relatives have passed away from old age. He lives and is the sole caretaker of his disabled sister who I know definitely exists from the pictures he shows me of her but according to him she can be very rude/judgmental which is his reasoning for not introducing me to her. There’s a lot of things that have happened with her or at least stories he’s told me. He leaves at the exact same time every morning and night like clock work which is another confusing thing for me. He usually comes over around 8 and leaves around 6 or 7 EVERY SINGLE TIME. If we hang out at night then it’s the reverse time.. he comes over around 6 or 7 and then leaves around 8. He doesn’t have friends so I’ve never met them even if he did have them or anyone for that matter and he’s only ever came over to my house. We got to know each other for about 6 months and have been officially dating for over 6 months so we’ve been together for a little over a year in total. When we first started taking he lied about his middle name when he left his wallet at my house and said that his ID in his wallet wasn’t even valid but he still had it? It’s just hard for me to understand if he’s being truthful about just having a weird schedule and life I suppose. I don’t want to think he’s cheating but I guess that’s on the table if y’all think any of this is weird. He has a high paying job, a degree and has always been very kind to me so the only concerning parts are how he leaves at the same time every single time we hang out and I’ve literally met no one he’s close to. What do you guys think? Are my worries valid or am I just overthinking? Please give me your honest opinions and thoughts because I’m very confused on how to feel about all of this.

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u/starburstkitty — 1 day ago