u/sturgeonfan004

At this point in my transition I get he/himed by strangers consistently but I live in a famously very progressive and lgbt friendly city so the majority of people I encounter probably have that same mindset so I’ve begun to get paranoid that everyone is clocking me even though im relatively stealth and they’re just being nice by gendering me correctly. It feels silly to feel like this because Im still privileged enough to get gendered correctly but my mind is trying to sour that win by telling me that I don’t actually pass and people are just polite. Is this something anyone else has felt before, if so how did you get over it?