DAE narc purposely does things to wake you up, knowing your a light sleeper?
Anyone else’s sleep get interrupted or just full blown don’t get any sleep? Before my narc left for work this morning (5 something am). He lets the dog in my room, throws a dog treat and slams the door. After slamming the door I instantly wake up, plus the loud crunching from my dog. I get up because I end up having to use the bathroom. Then I go to my narc, I asked him why would he give him a treat this early, now I have to hear him eating while I’m trying to sleep. He tells me, “man, if you can hear him then you weren’t sleep”. As if everyone is able to deep sleep like him. Mind you, this was one of those treats they can eat for a while..not quick. So not only do I have to hear the loud crunching, I have to worry about him using the bathroom since dog is not trained.
Then on top of that, I have to be up early anyway because he’ll be texting and calling me at 7 am to get up because I shouldn’t be sleeping “all day and need to be productive “ and I also have to let the dogs out. I’m lucky if I can fall back to sleep a little after all of this. I hate when he is off because he will make sure I’m up at 7. Or I get lectured and fussed at . One time I was pulled out of bed on to the floor. Then my door has to stay open and he constantly walks by to make sure. Normally my narc wakes me up by talking or fussing at me while I’m sleep. Like whatever it is can’t wait until I wake up. If ignore him, he constantly calls my name until I wake up. If I try to argue back, he complains about no matter how late he goes to sleep he’s able to get up the same time everyday. I feel like it’s just from being in the military. But not everyone is morning person, If I have something to do or place to go I can get up but if not I like to enjoy my sleep.
Dae not able to sleep around their narc??