u/sunb34m_91712

This person would always write insensitive stuff in my comment sections but I just never thought anything of it. I write short stories about trauma and grooming and PTSD for context, with a character who is 9 years old. (So I can write about her recovering so I can cope) They once wrote “she really needs to get over it and recover.”

This fic wasn’t even ABOUT “child abuse” it was about my protagonist having a panic attack.

For context of “rude comments back and forth“ once my friend said “that‘s kind of insensitive, you know?” On a comment they wrote.

I REALLY don’t know how to feel. This girl (unless catfish) messaged me after finding me from a post of me venting about being groomed.

(for context on “I write about grooming” I write short stories/poetry and post it)

I’m 13 almost 14. he was 36.

Vee, nixie, (both female) and Pip (genderless) are my original characters I made when I was severely mentally ill. They are supposed to be around 11-13 And he would sexualize them every chance he got even though I said I didn't like It. He wrote about Pip getting graphically >!raped !<and made them have male genitals because “there’s only two genders.” He knew I was mentally ill

We met in October 2025 through a fanfiction website. I write short stories about SA and grooming of my favorite characters, (fandom is little nightmares) and he would write >!graphic rape “porn”!<about a lot of child characters, he even wrote >!gorey rape “porn”!< about a 6 year old irl child actress. He knew how old I was and he did this to my friend (15) and another teen girl too, who deleted her account and any connection she has to him. He also would jokingly tell me he was gonna move to Alaska with me.

On July 29, he got arrested for CSAM because some random person reported him. he deleted ALLLLLL of the messages between me and him, as well as the stories about my OCs he gifted to me. He also deleted the messages between him and my friend.

My mom swears it wasn’t grooming and that I’m “lying” because I think it’s “cool and funny”. I told my cousin (she thinks it’s grooming) about it, and my mom found out and was livid. She says if he was “actually grooming” me, then he would’ve asked for naked pictures. She also said “he doesn’t even think about you outside of that website“ but he told me he thinks about me at work. She told me that if I want to write about ”porn” then I need to expect this.

”Obviously you didn’t mind it or you would’ve blocked him.” Is something my mom said.

I had to stop being friends with my friend who he did this to because she will not stop talking about him and saying how much she misses him and it’s really affecting my mental state. She admitted to encouraging it while he was grooming me because it would give me “character development“.

I know this sounds so stupid and so dramatic but this is really affecting me.