u/sweetbabyanglee

Feeling conflicted. Went dress shopping and I found a dress that I loved after only trying on 6 dresses. Decided to go to one more shop to be sure and found another dress that I loved now I’m conflicted. I love both dresses and can picture myself getting married in both, but neither dress made me feel like “this is the one”. I didn’t have “the moment” and tears. I need some feedback as I’m not sure if I should go with one of these or keep looking.

I love an A-Line gown, lace bodice and a tulle bottom with some design/lace/sparkle but not much.

Edit: wanted to add that the sleeves for both are add ons, not actually part of the dress. I just liked other dresses that included those. And veils aren’t necessarily going with the dress, just what the consultant put me in.

3rd dress: I really liked this bodice and probably would’ve gone with this one if the bottom was different.

A recruiter reached out to me a month ago on LinkedIn saying I’d make a good candidate for a position. I decided to see it through since I had been applying for months with no luck.

First Interview was a discussion with the recruiter. That went well so they set me up for a Second Interview with the CEO, which I thought was strange but they mentioned the company was small and the CEO likes having a say in who gets hired.

That interview went very well so they set me up to meet with the CCO. That interview also went well and I moved onto the next stage which was to do an hour+ long personality & logic test.

I did well on 1/3 logic portions, coming out as average. And did well on the personality test. I met with their head of HR to go over these results. The meeting seemed to go well and she said she thought I would be a good fit for the position.

I received a note from the recruiter this morning that due to the logic portion of the test, they would not be moving forward with me. That stung a lot. I pretty much thought I had it in the bag since I had been to 4 interviews that all seemed positive.

I’m just feeling defeated after all that and not sure where to go from here. My fiance thinks I should email the team, thanking them for their time but to also say that it’s not fair to base my ability to succeed in a position on a logic test. He thinks I have nothing to lose.

Idk looking for advice on what to do next.

Need help deciding

Feeling Disappointed After Rejection