Question regarding first time meet up with Domm
Hi everyone, so I am new to this and am 25 and a cis male. Now I matched with someone on fet who is a domm and we seem to vibe well which is great and all, but there are some red flags and I am starting to think this isn't real or safe.
First red flag, went to telegram. Now there has been no mention of money at all and we have discussed limits and what not, but she also wants to meet at her house without having met first. I originally ignored this stupidly but I am starting not too. Their account is also now blocked by fet until she verifies which she hasn't done in a week or so now.
As nice as it would be to meet my first domm, this doesn't seem like how things should go. I have always heard people meet up for a few dates first especially since this all involves a lot of trust. My friends aren't really into this stuff so I am wanting to get opinions from people who are.
Sorry if this is a silly question.
Update: gonna ask about seeing in person and address the red flags. Thank you to those who commented, you have all been great and I hope you have a wonderful week