u/swmsa_

texting men out of “boredom”

i’m not looking for relationship advice, just some advice on if anyone has dealt with this. i’ve (26f) been with my girlfriend (26f) for almost a year. we’ve had our ups and downs. i guess i would consider myself bisexual, although she is my first relationship and first girlfriend. my girlfriend is a lesbian and a stud. i was on her phone and i saw she had been flirting with a guy. there was a few private pictures sent from the guy, nothing sent from her side. but it kind of confused me since she had recently mentioned still being weirded out by me dealing with men in the past. i told her im not even interested in being with a man. she too has no interest in being with a man. i confronted her about it and she said she was bored, but i told her that ive never been bored enough to sext a guy and i’m literally bisexual. i have no intentions of ending the relationship for my own personal reasons, but is this normal? i would never shame my girlfriend if she came out as bisexual, but likeee?? i’m confused lol. i talked to a girl friend of mine who is straight and i asked if she had entertained a woman. she said yes, but she was 19. she’s 23 now.

thoughts??

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u/swmsa_ — 1 day ago