Not taking it well..
I recently got diagnosed with HSV 2. My first OB is so BAD and considering it's also my first time to have intercourse.. I don't know what to do now. (Got herpes on my first time—how lucky right?)
My ex (the one I had contact with) tried to help me in terms of buying me medicine, vitamins, going to OBGYN checkups, and doing errands for me during my first OB. He was very apologetic the entire time and told me that he didn't know he had it since he's not experiencing any symptoms.
He even went as far as telling me he'll help me if ever I have OBs in the future even if we are not together anymore. He wants to take "responsibility" of what happened, he said.
I don't want to resent him but I've been a mess this month because of it (insomnia, crying, and a lot of thinking on how to navigate this so I don't get OBs in the future, and regrets). I'm actually thinking it's the end for me.
I don't even know if I should accept his help. Any piece of advice?