How do I shake away the feeling that I’m a loser for getting played?
I was seeing a guy for a month. I was cautious and careful. He seems clean. Walang issues or red flags. He was expressive and showy sa feelings niya towards me. He would even posts me sa stories niya and he would talk about me sa siblings niya. Talagang walang indication na may saltik pala. One day, while I was scrolling sa tiktok, I came across a live. To make the story short, in that live I learned na he is dating someone else and they live together. I confronted him about it and he said best friends niya lang yon and they were just joking. I let it go kasi nga di naman kami talaga and I was waiting for him to come back to talk about it, since I decided na that time to let go of what we had. To make the story short again, I confronted him and we had a huge fight. He keeps on lying to me but he eventually admitted to the truth while omitting some informations, and apologized. He said he fell in love with the other guy to save face but the truth is he’s been seeing both of us talaga.
Now I feel like a loser because I was not able to sniff him out when I normally could. I thought highly of him tapos lahat ng yon pala di totoo. Nasusuka ako every time I remember yong mga good things that happened between us. How do I shake away this feeling?