I'm wondering if my 6 year old has ADHD
I’ve been wondering if my 6 year old son has ADHD or if he’s just a really high energy kid. He’s always been active, but lately he’s always moving, talking, interrupting, and getting upset over little things.
Getting him ready for school is one of the hardest parts of our day. It’s not just that he doesn’t want to go. He has a hard time getting started in the morning. We have to remind him to get dressed, eat breakfast, and get his things ready. He gets distracted before he finishes one thing. Sometimes I tell him not to do something and he does it again a minute later. I know some of this can be normal for a 6 year old, but it happens almost every day and it’s made me wonder about ADHD.
This morning he woke up early and came into our room asking questions and telling me to get up. I told him I was tired and wanted a few more minutes, but he kept coming back and getting louder. Then he started kicking things in the room. I told him to stop but he kept going. I tried to calm him down and he got even more upset.
It’s the same at night. Even when he’s tired, he has a hard time settling down. He gets out of bed, asks for things, or keeps talking. We can spend a long time trying to get him to sleep.
We’ve tried a lot of things. Sometimes we play bedtime stories from Calm or put on quiet audio. He has a Harkla weighted blanket and his favorite stuffed animals by his bed. Lately we’ve also been using a Pococo star projector and keeping the room dark so he has something quiet to look at before bed. Sometimes it helps him settle down, but not every night.
He’s smart and very social. He has friends, likes playing with them, and can be really sweet. That’s why I keep wondering if this is just how he is or if something else is going on.
At what point did you decide to get your child evaluated? I’m worried I’m overthinking it, but I don’t want to ignore something that might be affecting him.