u/tahskanjai

Hey y'all,

I'm in a really tough spot. I currently live in a student apartment. My lease is ending, which they're not extending because I'm no longer a student after this. At the same time, I don't have a job yet. I'm incredibly occupied with finding a job and writing and doing my thesis at the same time, which I have to defend soon.

I'm having a difficult time finding a place to rent, even though I have a guarantor and can show proof of funds, because I won't be a student any longer, and also have no personal income to show. Has anyone else been in a situation like this? What the hell do I do? I have a month to find a place.

Hey, first post here (24M). I've been overweight my entire life, but for the past 2 years I've been putting in the effort to be active, go to the gym, maintain some level of exercise. I don't want to be unfit any more, it sucks being sweaty everywhere, huffing and puffing up the stairs, not being able to lift or do much. And to be very honest, I want to look good and feel comfortable.

I'm at my wits end because even though I can maintain a routine in the gym for 3-4 weeks (3-4 times a week), there's always some event that breaks my routine. I either get very busy with exams, or fall sick when the seasons change. I then have to pause everything while I adjust to new courses, or get better.

I know that I just have to keep trying. But constant failure is getting to me to be very honest. I realised that not eating enough with constant exercise was causing me to fall ill more quickly, or recover very slowly from workouts (I would just feel zoned out all the time, even throughout the next day). At the same time, there are days (especially days where I don't have enough protein) that I just end up binging. Due to the sporadicity of my diet, I'm not really able to maintain a deficit consistently either. I feel like there are so many loose ends and I can't find one to grab on to that would give me significant improvement. What do I do?