u/tall_enby_dogdad

To get ahead of multiple wishlist related posts, we are creating a megathread about the recent wishlist debacle.

To recap:

Steph posted an Amazon wishlist to Facebook with all stuff for the children. https://www.reddit.com/r/resilientjenkinsnark/s/ibIygDWcjT

The mods posted a warning to everyone yesterday, discouraging them from making any purchases, since even if it is well-meaning, there is no way to ensure the kids actually receive any of the items. https://www.reddit.com/r/resilientjenkinsnark/s/cU98TH5S3D

Then (also yesterday) the Amazon link mysteriously stopped working, unclear as to why- she could have just privated it due to backlash.

Prior to it being taken down, it looked like people had already purchased things, so hopefully those items do end up being given to the children.

to anyone feeling sorry for the children, and considering purchasing off the Amazon wishlist, please be aware of the following information:

1. If someone receives a gift purchased from Amazon, they may return that item to Amazon for Amazon credit. The gifter is not notified.
2. Nothing is stopping anyone that receives a gift on Amazon from selling that item on, say, Facebook marketplace or anywhere else, for cash.
3. Stephanie has a horrible track record with purchased items. See: the bunk beds that got broken, all the previous Amazon wishlist items that ended up crammed into the storage unit, the stroller that was “stolen” (sold), etc.
4. She doesn’t have a ton of room for extra things… not sure where she’s planning to put any of this, unless it’s all just getting returned or sold.

Please be cautious. The urge to help the children is valid, but it may just end up lining the pockets (or nostrils) of Steph and Drew anyway.

EDIT TO ADD: it appears that the wish list has been taken down, at least for now, but I’m sure another one will come eventually.

Steph said on a live at 3 am today that she asked her daughter if she’s worried about Steph posting the videos of her doing her daughter’s hair.

post:
https://www.reddit.com/r/resilientjenkinsnark/s/lmZ5224IR4

this is a reminder that THIS is the shit she puts out on the internet, that she is now acknowledging, AGAIN, that her child’s friends SEE HER POSTS. and she is 100% okay with that.

I have posted this video before a while ago, but since she brought it up, I’m posting it again.

THIS IS THE SHIT SHES OKAY WITH HER CHILDS 9-10 YEAR OLD FRIENDS SEEING AND KNOWING ABOUT. (and potentially bullying her kids about.)

she’s lying. her original message from Friday (slide 1) does not sound like she misspoke.

so she’s back tracking on the air bnb, now they’re not getting one.

plus she tells an abuse victim “we can tell you grew up abused.”

well that didn’t take long

this is very weird to listen to because the name and address of the motel had to be cut out.

there is a 911 call circulating tik tok, and the mods have verified that it is real, and the call was for the Jenkins motel. (edit to add: it may not have been their room.)

yesterday 6/19, 8:40 am PST

call states abdominal pain, but does not specify which person.

there was a previous call on 5/21 with a similar complaint of abdominal pain as well. I believe it ended up being Steph’s kidney stone incident.

she doesn’t have time to block the haters unless they’re in the sub only chat apparently

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I really need a local mom friend. Just someone to help me bounce around whenever I go out with my kids. Someone to chit chat with that can maintain conversation. Park trips could be so much more fun! Trips to the community center count be less overwhelming. I’m just one person and I do a dang good job of handling everything and chasing my toddlers opposite directions. Still keeping an eye on the older kids whereabouts. But then I’m just there. Existing so they can have the day they want. And I do it willingly because their happiness is mine. But I would sure love some age appropriate interaction and entertainment while I go about my day 😂
And I know that starts with me being more committed to make those connections and stay connected. And it would be a huge bonus if whomever i connect with ends up having kids around the same ages as mine.

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Goodness I just know y’all bout to go ham on the methanie” comments but Idc

Walked my arss to the park pushing a target cart that was abandoned behind the motel 😂
I mean hey, the homeless took our buggy (stroller) mine as well snag theirs..

In all seriousness, I just wanted to get my kids to the park. I’m tried of over explaining the car situation m. Either you get it or you don’t! Most days my only option for getting the kids out is to take them by foot. Without a stroller that’s been difficult because I can’t carry the two younger kids for very long. And I do not want them walking too much of a distance.

I saw this cart get abandoned a couple of days ago, yes very much saw the not so clean individuals who had it as well. But I hosed it down, wiped it down.. I’m not afraid of everything like a lot of folk, I make things work.
It was not very easy to push. Gave me a new respect for homeless people pushing them full carts all day lol
Honestly if it doesn’t get snagged I’ll keep using it till I do get a stroller. And if you see us, wave, honk, say hi. 🛒🛒

#resilientjenkins #MakeItWork #justliving #HealingLooksGoodOnYou