u/teenaweena1229

I (33f) have been with my husband (38m) for 4 years.

Hes absolutely my soul mate. He is like my best friend. We have 2 kids together. Hes an amazing husband and father. But hes vanilla. Im not. I thought over time he would branch out and explore a little, and I could comprise on a lot and we meet in the middle. Ive tried to get him to explore light bondage, he isnt interested. Even hair pulling, he wont do. I feel so sexually frustrated. I have dreams of being with other men and I feel disgusting for it. I dont know what to do because outside of our bedroom life, everything else is more than perfect.

tl;dr- Husband is vanilla, im not. He isnt willing to explore, im sexually frustrated.