u/thedark97

Our goal is to inflate our domme’s confidence and dommespace. Thinking about budgets can hurt that fantasy and I’m sure dommes feel the same. At the same time we live in the real world. When I started findom I would tell my partner how much I could spare from each paycheck, and we would “pretend” to forget while adhering to it.

Since coming back to the scene it feels like having a budget is frowned upon. When am I allowed to say “I have $500 tonight” or “I have $500 this week” before playing? Do dommes need to see and trust that we can supply dommespace first?

Note: this doesn’t come from anyone in particular. I’ve only had positive experiences.

I sent it, but is that reasonable? Girl stuff is expensive

Edit: it was a pedicure