r/paypigsupportgroup

I've been a pay pig off on for a while. I've always been a simp naturally. Took a short break from this and I've been on Reddit and have noticed like a 99% drop while the posts have been more for every other group. The only Asian women I see are in other countries where payment isn't an option.

Is there a reason for this? Are they getting advice to go elsewhere for money because findom dried up? Seems kind of odd. Anyone have insight?

Hello! Like the title says I’m officially 3 years removed from sending and somehow I still think about it daily. I miss the feeling of sending and knowing I’m being used. I miss being able to help others. I quit because of a bad experience with my long term domme but sometimes I just want to dive back in. I would definitely say I’m considering it but I also don’t want to throw 3 years down the drain lmao.

Just been dealing with a few extra things lately that have made my internal messiness even worse.

Wife has done a number of things lately to seemingly open the relationship for her. It’s complicated and I have my own share of issues. And it sparks/triggers a confusing set of feelings for me - perhaps even some cuck thoughts/fantasies and broader vulnerabilities (was cheated on by exes, etc).

Couple that with regular life and cravings, I haven’t quite even been my usual messy self lately.

Then there’s the usual most amazing beautiful women here (to fall those feet!), some I’ve grown quite close to.

Just a morning vent as I have extra time today.

Reposted from different r/ last week… Possibly informative as a display of a healthy fun relationship that was not exploitative or toxic like so many seem to be…

I just recently got home from a Europe trip, and I had the most amazing time spending several evenings with a most wonderful lady. Historically, physical meet-ups have been awkward-at-best for me, so I was definitely nervous about how it might go, but she and the overall experience were better than my wildest dreams!! It is also a beautiful reminder that people can find real and lasting relationships through unusual means.

Some Q&As people might have:

**Did you actually book an intercontinental flight to meet a domme you met on Reddit?**
Yes and no… Yes in the sense that I would not have done this for myself without her telling me I should, no in the sense that once I decided to do this, I had scheduled plans just for myself as part of a solo vacation, which meeting her was just one part of. I had no idea how much time to expect with her, so I kept expectations tempered, but ultimately we spent 3 evenings sightseeing and getting dinner + 2 afternoons shopping together, and I was really happy with that amount of time.

**Was the vibe kinky? Cliche? Were you in BDSM mode the whole time?**
This one is an emphatic no! She treated me like, gasp, a person, a friend even! I bought her some gifts and meals, and followed her a step behind while she took the lead in physical walking and in conversations, but no I was not being walked on a leash or wearing a gimp mask. Having someone guide me around the city, showing me things and places that meant something to her, made the experience even sweeter. I think that on some level, a meaningful long term relationship has to be more friendly than fantastical. The one kinky thing she did was use a restaurant candle to burn my hand and drip wax onto me in public, which yes, was very hot ;)

**Enough about emotional connections, get to the pay!**
After a few days of nudging her that I wanted to buy her a nice gift, on the last day of my trip I got her an absolutely gorgeous bag. That, plus fancy makeup from earlier, came out to about $950 spent on direct gifts for her. I spent an additional $330 on meals and drinks for the both of us, although since she’s an adult who can take care of herself and not a whiny beggar, she also paid for some of the food we got.

**Would I do it again?**
In a heartbeat. This is a community of people who like spoiling pretty girls, but going into this trip not being sure how real our relationship was and coming out of it knowing that I’ve made a friend for life, that’s magic. Realistically I probably won’t be able to meet her more than 1-2 times per year, but I’m already looking forward to the next time.